I am OAD. I had an easy pregnancy and newborn that led me to think I might want a second for awhile. H never wanted another.
But the reality is that I don't want to try to meet the needs of more than one child. I do not have the patience or interest in having young children for several years.
Same here, except my H thought he wanted a second. Now he's more OAD than I am, lol.
If we were closer to family we'd be more open to having a second but I don't picture that happening.
I'm on the fence. J would very much like to have another and if he had his way I'd be knocked up right now, whereas if I had to decide right this second we'd be OAD. He works 55-65 hours/week and as a result I spend big chunks of most weekends as the only parent plus 5-6 nights/week of doing bedtime 100% solo, so that has me really hesitant to have a second kid. He is aware that I am not having another kid (unless one of his swimmers gets past my IUD then lord help us all) until he has a job with more regular hours and that allows him to be home more in the evenings, so we'll see where things stand in a couple years-with the way he's working he could end up getting burned out sooner rather than later and want to change jobs so if that happens we'll revisit the topic sooner. I'm 33 and he's almost 34 so while we don't have all the time in the world we're not on a huge time crunch either.