Have you had any luck with talking to your dr. about a tubal? At a certain point I stopped going in that thread so I hope you got at least some helpful info in there...
I had some good advice thrown my way, but unfortunately that thread derailed itself pretty bad, ha!
I spoke to my doctor and while they weren't against the idea, they did say they'd like to wait until after I go off this medication she wanted me to try.
So, not as productive as I'd like, but it is a first step
Still looking into a vasectomy for the SO, though!