My poor friend's husband is being a jerk on FB

[hisno1girl]

Oh man, they have a kid?

This is a time when I truly do feel sorry for her child.

That's so sad.

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:05:11 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

Aug 11, 2014 17:04:24 GMT -5 mp said:

Well, yes. IRL I probably would! But I am living vicariously through amberlyrose, ok?!

FINE.

But amberly, just say no.

I just told him to take it off FB, no need to put it out there. She's asleep right now, I think. She works graveyards so I'm sure she hasn't seen this yet.

[Deleted]

There has to be so much more going on other than a birthday present. Not that that's an escuse though.

[zoomzoom]

Aug 11, 2014 17:03:54 GMT -5 amberlyrose said:

Aug 11, 2014 17:01:48 GMT -5 zoomzoom said:

I don't think he could find his ass from his elbow. JFC. Not judging, but I wouldn't have married my H if he were still trying to 'find himself.'

shotgun wedding. She was 6 mo pregnant. 

Omg. I feel like he's trapped her. Omg, I'm even more sad for her. Is he generally abusive? I guess you might not know but if he's doing this publicly, the I would imagine his behavior to be much worse in private. Shite.

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:06:34 GMT -5 hisno1girl said:

Oh man, they have a kid?

This is a time when I truly do feel sorry for her child.

That's so sad.

oh, yeah, my god daughter. I'm livid.

[pixy0stix]

Aug 11, 2014 17:06:39 GMT -5 amberlyrose said:

Aug 11, 2014 17:05:11 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

FINE.

But amberly, just say no.

I just told him to take it off FB, no need to put it out there. She's asleep right now, I think. She works graveyards so I'm sure she hasn't seen this yet.

So he's a fucking coward on top of everything. Posting everything while he knows she can't retaliate.

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:07:53 GMT -5 zoomzoom said:

Aug 11, 2014 17:03:54 GMT -5 amberlyrose said:

shotgun wedding. She was 6 mo pregnant. 

Omg. I feel like he's trapped her. Omg, I'm even more sad for her. Is he generally abusive? I guess you might not no but if he's doing this publicly, the I would imagine his behavior to be much worse in private. Shite.

I've never been a fan. He's always talking down to her, so I'm sure it's worse in private. 

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:08:14 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

Aug 11, 2014 17:06:39 GMT -5 amberlyrose said:

I just told him to take it off FB, no need to put it out there. She's asleep right now, I think. She works graveyards so I'm sure she hasn't seen this yet.

So he's a fucking coward on top of everything. Posting everything while he knows she can't retaliate.

Exactly.

[zoomzoom]

Jesus, she's too young for this. She's needs to GTFO while she can. How old is her kid?

[hippygirl]

He sounds like an ass clown.

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:09:55 GMT -5 zoomzoom said:

Jesus, she's too young for this. She's needs to GTFO while she can. How old is her kid?

6. She was born a few weeks before I was married. 

[Deleted]

Holy shit! If my h did this he'd be dead!

[pantsparty]

OMG 

[zoomzoom]

Oh man. I obvi don't know them but Christ. Judging from his FB behavior, he's a raging asshole. The 6 yo doesn't need this fuckhead as a role model. I generally endorse a 2 parent household. But when it's unhealthy and/or damaging, then no. Omg. Is he going to do this when his daughter is old enough to be on FB? Has your friend spoken to you about any of this type of behavior? I'm guessing not since abuse victims usually feel shame. My heart goes out to her. And a fucking spiked mace to his balls. No more procreation for him.

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:15:19 GMT -5 oceanspray said:

Wait. She hasn't seen this stuff yet?

I'm not sure, but I don't think so. I messaged her and told her to shut it down and delete the status, but it still says it hasn't been opened.

[Deleted]

I'm sorry.

You need to stop being friends with high schoolers.


And if they aren't in high school - well, you need to stop being their friends anyway. Lol.

[lexxasaurus]

Aug 11, 2014 17:07:41 GMT -5 @pippil said:

There has to be so much more going on other than a birthday present. Not that that's an escuse though.

I had this thought, except more "the dynamic of this relatipnship has to be more broken than anyone can see." It reminds me of my abusive ex. I could forget to take out the trash, and all hell would break loose. If I screwed up something he saw as a big deal? He had no problem openly talking about what a huge cunt I was. Makes my heart hurt for her.

[cinderbella]

This makes me really, really sad. I can't even imagine what goes in behind closed doors.

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:07:41 GMT -5 @pippil said:

There has to be so much more going on other than a birthday present. Not that that's an escuse though.

I'm sure there is. I lived with the girl and know that she can be a little self centered, but never to the point that she would ignore her own child or husband. 

[Deleted]

I feel sad for her. If he acts like that publicly he is probably much worse in private. I would be divorcing H if he acted like that.

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:21:18 GMT -5 @lazerus24 said:

I'm sorry.

You need to stop being friends with high schoolers.


And if they aren't in high school - well, you need to stop being their friends anyway. Lol.

We were college roommates! 

And I'm sure if there was some more noticeable abuse going on, her parents would either tell her to be a better wife or get her out ASAP. They're weird.

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

I don't care what this woman did or didn't do. You absolutely do not put a significant other on blast in public like this. It's so immature and gross I can't even deal with it.

[thejen626]

Whoa this is awful what are their mutual friends saying? I hope someone is sticking up for her.

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:27:46 GMT -5 Adora Belle Dearheart said:

Did you screen capture it? I would just in case he deletes it before she wakes up and sees it.

What an ass.

Ooh! good idea!

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:28:26 GMT -5 thejen626 said:

Whoa this is awful what are their mutual friends saying? I hope someone is sticking up for her.

Just me and this other dude. And not really sticking up for her as much as telling him to take it off FB. If someone stood up for her, I think he'd be even worse and she doesn't deserve that out there. I did message her and let her know that I'm here for her if she needs someone to talk to.

[redheadk]

Can you call and wake her up so she can take it down if she'd like?

[sandytoes]

What a dick!! I feel so bad for your friend and their kid. Looks like he learned how to be an asshole while he was "finding himself".

[amberlyrose]

Aug 11, 2014 17:35:47 GMT -5 redheadk said:

Can you call and wake her up so she can take it down if she'd like?

I'd feel bad waking her up, because I know she wouldn't be able to go back to sleep after that, kwim? Plus, her mom lives down the street and is always on FB, so I'm sure she would tell her. 

[Saint Monica]

[kristie]

I have a friend/acquaintance that does this to her DH it is so freaking uncomfortable to watch. She posts vague passive aggressive attack statuses regularly,then sometimes she does the whole dirty laundry fight thing on there. I don't know how or why he puts up with it.