Really? Oh wow, I'm sorry I hurt your feelings. It's never my intention to hurt anyone. I like you and think you're funny but I understand having a hard time forgetting when someone posts something harsh. I'm no stranger to that and I'm truly sorry I made you feel that way too.
Really? Oh wow, I'm sorry I hurt your feelings. It's never my intention to hurt anyone. I like you and think you're funny but I understand having a hard time forgetting when someone posts something harsh. I'm no stranger to that and I'm truly sorry I made you feel that way too.
A woman i used to work with. If I saw her on the street and had enough drinks in me I think if she said anything to me I could pop her one. And I am a lovah not a fightah
My money grubbing whore (MGW for short) of ex-SIL. Fucking hate her. Her and her entire family are beyond BEC. They are just fucked in the heads. FUCK.
My sister, usually. Some FB mommy friends fill that slot on the days she's not being particularly offensive, though, mainly with their bragplaining. So. much. bragplaining.
Much better! I was in a HURRY!! (& legitimately considered coming back later to modify w/ an original 'E' word. But I was afraid of looking too invested )
Much better! I was in a HURRY!! (& legitimately considered coming back later to modify w/ an original 'E' word. But I was afraid of looking too invested )
A mutual friend of mine. She is more of an aquantance. She hit BEC territory when my mom died. I went to my BFF house, and the BEC had called her asking her if she could watch her baby. My BFF told her, no, Jodinia lost her mom. She said oh... so can I drop her off? Nope nope nope. My BFF was awesome, and didn't tell me about this until the bec texted her to ask a 3rd time! I saw the text and asked what was up. I was so pissed.
My brother and one of my SIL, but I'm trying really hard to take things she says at face value because I think she's trying not to be such a stain. My brother is a lost cause.
Post by mirandahobbes on Aug 20, 2014 17:21:41 GMT -5
This friend of my sister who is a gold digger. She has dated A-list celebrities and married a professional baseball player (has since divorced). Total BEC.
Post by lightyears on Aug 20, 2014 17:31:14 GMT -5
my mom. she's been especially bad since i had j.
example: showing up uninvited to the hospital while i was in labor because she "just had to be there" and just knew her "baby neeeeeeeeeeded" her. and then getting in a shouting match with my nurse who promptly kicked her out to the waiting room.
she could hand me $10,000 right now and i'd be annoyed.
One of H's cousins. She's a total holly homemaker and used to love to one up me. We've got more geographical distance between us now, so it's not as bad.
Post by yourmother on Aug 20, 2014 18:04:05 GMT -5
My BFF. She shows little support through my IF struggle. Always asking if I can put TTC on hold so we can go on a vacation or go out and get drunk (I've been doing IUI's and going into my second IVF cycle). She is constantly brag-plaining and is NEVER wrong. Oh, and she will constantly talk in round about ways about how other people compliment her on her looks. And she likes to brag about how her company pays her SO MUCH. Basically, she's a self-righteous perfect person who knows it.
A co-worker. I'm a teacher and she's another teacher who works with some of my students. She is extraordinarily nosy, rifling through papers on my desk, reading my email over my shoulder, etc. She literally sees nothing wrong with going through my mail on my desk or sifting through my personal items at school. We started back today and she is in my room for every single class I teach. Fuck. It is going to be the longest year ever.
Honestly? I think she's gotten worse over time and I've changed as well. I'm more sensitive nowadays and she's dealing with her own shit (divorce). I'm putting space between us and the less interactions we have, the easier life is. It's a 17+ year relationship and so there's a lot of history. I'm working on setting boundaries and am hoping things drift to a monthly type interaction as opposed to daily.