It is not your fault. You didn't do anything wrong. Hugs.
I feel like I did though. We waited, I got let go from a great paying job that potentially would have paid for Ivf. But I didn't fight hard enough as I could and now we are in debt still after taking 3 Iui chances. I was laid off and now that idea is not happening at all.
every life choice I had had this ver consequence. I'm drowning in if onlys......
Don't go down that road of what ifs...it only leads to heartbreak. You did nothing wrong. (Hugs)
Post by cinnamoncox on Aug 22, 2014 6:48:02 GMT -5
I'm sorry you're struggling with this You did nothing wrong, you did your best and have a beautiful healthy dd. I'm terribly sorry you're not able to add to your family, but it's not on you. It sucks that it's out of our control sometimes. I wish you well.
I'm so sorry, you have done nothing wrong. I often get like this too after all the shit that has come my way and then I realize I am letting thinking like this cloud my vision. Don't forget to love the life you have right now. It may not be the one you requested but you have a wonderful family, cherish them and don't forget to live for today. Living for the "what if's" only causes heartbreak. ((Hugs)).