Can we perhaps also discuss this poor fuck who is on the receiving end of the hall pass?
A current colleague who happens to be married to your former co worker approaches you and says she has a hall pass and you're "it". You: a) don't wanna touch that situation with a 10ft poll and walk away, or b) decide you're gonna be THAT guy.
My new neighbors do not have curtains or blinds yet, I can see right In. Clearly I'm not trying to see into their home, but every now and then my eyes wander. Creepy neighbor alert. Lol.
Can we perhaps also discuss this poor fuck who is on the receiving end of the hall pass?
A current colleague who happens to be married to your former co worker approaches you and says she has a hall pass and you're "it". You: a) don't wanna touch that situation with a 10ft poll and walk away, or b) decide you're gonna be THAT guy.
#nosympathy
There is something about the intended knowing what the situation is that is so difficult for me. Like, messing around with a married woman is one thing, but the mention that she has a pass from her husband to cheat with you sounds like the beginning of a Lifetime movie that goes horribly awry and ends up with one of you explaining it in a flashback to a detective.
A current colleague who happens to be married to your former co worker approaches you and says she has a hall pass and you're "it". You: a) don't wanna touch that situation with a 10ft poll and walk away, or b) decide you're gonna be THAT guy.
#nosympathy
There is something about the intended knowing what the situation is that is so difficult for me. Like, messing around with a married woman is one thing, but the mention that she has a pass from her husband to cheat with you sounds like the beginning of a Lifetime movie that goes horribly awry and ends up with one of you explaining it in a flashback to a detective.
I'm crying at the back to school pictures on facebook because in 3 short years my little girl will be going off to kindergarten. Wtf is wrong with me?!
Yes. I was on my way to do it when I realized she axed me first!
Aw her and I never were fb friends. She probably suspects someone will snoop and find her co worker and tell him what's up and ruin her booty call.... Damn snitches.
Yes. I was on my way to do it when I realized she axed me first!
Aw her and I never were fb friends. She probably suspects someone will snoop and find her co worker and tell him what's up and ruin her booty call.... Damn snitches.
I get that you don't like her, but seriously, STOP. You're practically drooling over this whole thing.
Aw her and I never were fb friends. She probably suspects someone will snoop and find her co worker and tell him what's up and ruin her booty call.... Damn snitches.
I get that you don't like her, but seriously, STOP. You're practically drooling over this whole thing.
Post by Regina Philange on Aug 26, 2014 8:24:22 GMT -5
It sounded like Chris really wanted to make her happy, so he decided to give her a hall pass and then realized he couldn't do it. I could see that happening. They are very young, and hes willing to try anything. I dont think its a medical problem. Gisa, i think you have a very high sexual drive, and anyone would have a hard time keeping up with that. Clearly, i don't have this problem so i do not know what its like. I also don't have the answer, but its definitely not a hall pass. Obviously, since he is now upset. I think therapy is great, because you can then maybe get the answer. Just try it out, one time even. It might help.
Would you be able to have him go through with a hall pass? I really really think, not. Put yourself in his shoes. Trust me, nothing good will come of this.
So I've tried not to say anything about the situation because well, you know.
I have a friend-couple who have an "open relationship" because he cheated early in their relationship at 18 or 19 and kissed another woman. She proceeded to sleep with anything that moved to get revenge. Clearly they had issues, and they continue to have issues because her husband desperately wanted to make it up to her and keep her so he agreed to an open marriage. He has not since acted on it because of sexual dysfunction issues stemming from high blood pressure while she's carried on several relationships, most recently a 3 year relationship with a married man, who is also in an open relationship. It kills her husband that she does this and she knows it but continues to do it because this other man plugs a hole sexually and emotionally. This couple grew up as best friends and they refuse to get a divorce and they refuse to see counselors. I love them both but I honestly feel sorry for her husband who agreed to something that eats him up inside.
I also understand filling emotional and sexual voids because we're all human.
I am the last person to give marriage advice, but I think there are worse things in any relationship than sexual incompatability. Lots of people deal with that with sex therapists and couseling....cheating is a different story. Those wounds, generally, cannot be overcome. I know, I've been on both sides of that fence in a marriage and I know how much you and C love one another, L. I don't think this is something y'all can't overcome, but the "hall pass" thing would have crushed my soul had I been C, so you understand that's where the snide comments he made the other day stem from. You're both looking long and hard at your relationship right now, so don't think that you have all the power here. I hope you guys come together in this.
She must be on a massive unfriending spree. She unfriended me (she just friended me, like a month ago) and I like to think I'm one of the more innocuous posters on the board.
She must be on a massive unfriending spree. She unfriended me (she just friended me, like a month ago) and I like to think I'm one of the more innocuous posters on the board.
I wouldn't take it personally. I think there was just too much overlapping life info.
She must be on a massive unfriending spree. She unfriended me (she just friended me, like a month ago) and I like to think I'm one of the more innocuous posters on the board.
I still have 49 mutual friends with her so it must not be that massive.
She must be on a massive unfriending spree. She unfriended me (she just friended me, like a month ago) and I like to think I'm one of the more innocuous posters on the board.
I wouldn't take it personally. I think there was just too much overlapping life info.
Oh, I'm not. Just wanted to point out that I think it's a LOT of people. I mean, who defriends me? lol
She must be on a massive unfriending spree. She unfriended me (she just friended me, like a month ago) and I like to think I'm one of the more innocuous posters on the board.
I still have 49 mutual friends with her so it must not be that massive.
Crap! I must not be as innocuous (and awesome) as I thought. Lol
I wouldn't take it personally. I think there was just too much overlapping life info.
Oh, I'm not. Just wanted to point out that I think it's a LOT of people. I mean, who defriends me? lol
you are a sinister character
I mean, in a rage you could whip up a lethal pharmaceutical concoction in minutes. Nobody would know what hit them. "heart attack" they might say. And you would rub your hands gleefully, so gleefully
personally I'm very afraid of you. Just an asiprin, you say? No thank you, my headache suddenly feels much better..
She must be on a massive unfriending spree. She unfriended me (she just friended me, like a month ago) and I like to think I'm one of the more innocuous posters on the board.
I still have 49 mutual friends with her so it must not be that massive.
Well then, I stand corrected. Take it personally. Ha.