Feeling funky; set me straight

[achase123]

I don't know why I'm bothered by this and I don't think I should be so set me straight.

Last Saturday I randomly met these two guys who do crossfit in the grocery store. I invited them to meet up with me and one of my friends and her H. We all had a great time; they seemed like cool guys. I invited another friend totally last minute. She's very pretty and single.

I was kind of into one of the guys and I kind of thought he was into me but wasn't sure. I went to crossfit this last Saturday morning at his suggestion

Anywho, so I just found out that he and the pretty friend I invited sat night went out last night. I want to be happy for her about it and I should. She's great and he seems great too. Obviously it's just not there with he and I.

So I'm not sure why I feel weird about it. It sounds like he thinks of me more as a friend so I wish I could just think of it like that! Help me out here.


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[cuddlyevil]

I can understand being a bit disappointed. But maybe you've got a new skill as a matchmaker?

[Deleted]

Ugg that is a shitty feeling. But yes you have to move past it and put him in the friend zone.

[Deleted]

Honestly, I'd feel annoyed too.  BUT, you have to just suck it up and be friends (easier said than done). Does your friend plan to see him again?

[jigsy]

That does suck...but as others have said, looks like you are in the friend-zone...but maybe thats not a bad thing. He might have a fun, hot friend he could bring to the next outing

[doriswe]

Aug 25, 2014 14:02:49 GMT -5 jigsy said:

That does suck...but as others have said, looks like you are in the friend-zone...but maybe thats not a bad thing. He might have a fun, hot friend he could bring to the next outing

ITA with this!

[achase123]

Yes I think I'm a good matchmaker! I found a hot guy for my mom just the other night!

Idk if she'll see him again or not. She's talking to a few people. I do think he's too young for me anyways. He's 27 and I'm 32


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[onedayatatime]

Sorry about that - but be on the lookout for his friends!


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[jojoandleo]

Did your friend KNOW you were kind of digging the guy? I would be annoyed if she did, but, yeah. It sucks, but nothing you can do about it. Agreed on the hot friends. Tell him you did such a good hob finding him a hottie, he has to return the favor

[LoveBug]

I would definitely be bummed. But I like that you can also have a new male friend.

[achase123]

Aug 27, 2014 12:39:36 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Did your friend KNOW you were kind of digging the guy? I would be annoyed if she did, but, yeah. It sucks, but nothing you can do about it. Agreed on the hot friends. Tell him you did such a good hob finding him a hottie, he has to return the favor

Yes somewhat but it really wasn't that big of a deal. I think they would actually be good together. Both very into fashion plus he seems great around children (pics of him holding babies on his Facebook page, he was great with P when I saw him at crossfit) and my friend has a LO. It's fine, really.


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[jojoandleo]

Aug 27, 2014 14:24:23 GMT -5 achase123 said:

Aug 27, 2014 12:39:36 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Did your friend KNOW you were kind of digging the guy? I would be annoyed if she did, but, yeah. It sucks, but nothing you can do about it. Agreed on the hot friends. Tell him you did such a good hob finding him a hottie, he has to return the favor

Yes somewhat but it really wasn't that big of a deal. I think they would actually be good together. Both very into fashion plus he seems great around children (pics of him holding babies on his Facebook page, he was great with P when I saw him at crossfit) and my friend has a LO. It's fine, really.


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See, I would be more annoyed if my friend KNEW I had a thing for the guy and didn't tell me about the date herself, ya know?  But, my friendships may be disfunctionally close. 

[achase123]

Aug 27, 2014 14:35:28 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Aug 27, 2014 14:24:23 GMT -5 achase123 said:

Yes somewhat but it really wasn't that big of a deal. I think they would actually be good together. Both very into fashion plus he seems great around children (pics of him holding babies on his Facebook page, he was great with P when I saw him at crossfit) and my friend has a LO. It's fine, really.


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See, I would be more annoyed if my friend KNEW I had a thing for the guy and didn't tell me about the date herself, ya know?  But, my friendships may be disfunctionally close. 

She's not one of my closest friends so I'm ok with it. I really feel like it's a minor issue to get over. For me



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[moonlight]

I agree with what has already been said. But I don't blame you for feeling kind of bummed over it. I think I would too.