I know some of you have been asking. I've been wanting to come here many times for advice or to vent and just couldn't find the courage. I was scared someone will find my post. Well it's out in the open so I can post. Even changing my screen name or posting as an ae gave me anxiety about sharing, lol.
My H and I are getting a divorce. It's been a hard few months for me. Lots of denial about the way I feel and coming to terms with what needs to happen for me to be happy. I have not been happy for a long time. I don't know if I feel comfortable giving too many details, except he's had a problem which he is now getting help for, but unfortunately it's too late.
I just need support which I am getting from my close friends, and H is actually being pretty cooperative about it all.
Any advice / hair pats / kind words would be much appreciated!!
You have been missed and I am so sorry that you have been going through this. I hope you can lean on us if you need too. A beautiful life awaits you and you deserve it!
I am so sorry to hear this. I have noticed you haven't been around as much and have missed you. You are such a good momma to S and I have no doubt that you are doing the best for you two. Hang in there and we are here for you.
Oh A, I'm so sorry! I totally get not feeling comfortable posting, but I hope now that you can, all the love we have for you helps a bit. We've missed you around here. So many hugs to you. You deserve so much happiness.
Emerson Kate, born 38w5d on 4/6/12 at 6:02 p.m., 5 lbs 13 oz and 18 3/4 inches. Lucas Matthew, born 39w5d on 4/11/14 at 8:20 a.m., 7 lbs 4 oz and 20 inches.
Ohhh I am sorry to hear this. I am glad for you that it was the right decision and that you have a support system. As you know- we're all here to help in any way we can:) Divorce isn't easy, but sometimes it's the only option in order to get some peace and happiness. I struggled with it for a long time before finally getting the courage to get up and leave, and it's been the best thing in the world for DD and I. Lots of hugs and hair pats.
I'm so sorry. I have been thinking about you and hoping things were ok. You have some ladies here going through similar situations and of course we are all here to listen or talk if you need it. You will get through this and be just fine! Hugs.