Not that Pregnant needs any kind of public examination.
So. Yeah.
(hugs)
I know how freaked out I was with both DD1 and DD2 - and they were 100% planned. Hell, we actively tried for 2 years for DD2 and I was STILL freaked out after getting that positive test.
You are stronger than you know, you've got this - WHATEVER you decide to do!
โLife is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.โ - Natalie Goldberg
Post by bohemianmango on Sept 12, 2014 12:43:01 GMT -5
Simultaneous hairpats and hugs from this internet stranger. Take another test or few, a digital if possible. Breathe and figure out how to proceed. Sorry BCP failed you if that's the case.
Oh man. I know pretty much exactly how you are feeling right now. I had the same thing happen to me while I was going through my divorce, but it was actually my XH that got my KU (we had sex one stupid time after deciding to split and that was of course the one time I was apparently ovulating). It's like, the worst timing ever with everything else you have going on. Life can be so cruel. Hugs.
FWIW, I'm not a parent now. If you want to have the baby, that's awesome. If you don't, you'll be ok too. I hate that I ever got pregnant to begin with but I have zero regrets with how I handled it. Please PM me if you want to talk more.
Post by sofamonkey on Sept 12, 2014 12:53:25 GMT -5
Oh, MB. HUGE hugs to you. You have a ton of support no matter what. Like Miso, I have made both choices & it is hard but OK. I do recommend some counseling though if you can/want to because it's a lot to deal with. ((hugs))
I had a false +ย once on a pink dye test. I was TTC and it completely sucked to find out I was not pregnant. I might have sent several scathing letters to the company afterward.
ETA: That one is most definitely a positive test but I would retest with a blue dye to be sure.
I have this backwards. Blue tests are bad, pink tests are good. That would be a very positive pink test. I had two that looked just like that and, babies. I would see if your OB can squeeze in a blood serum test today before your weekend plans.
ETA: just read the update, and this seems silly now
Huge hugs lady. Please take care if yourself. We will be here emotionally for you no matter what you decide. Please talk to someone before you make any decision, it will help get your feelings out and you'll be able to make a decision that's not rash.
Post by montereybride on Sept 12, 2014 13:07:15 GMT -5
My OB doesn't do blood draws in the office but I am scheduled for Sept. 24 for an U/S. I laid out my story and begged for blood work orders to make 100% sure. The PA has to check with my OB but said getting the orders shouldn't be a problem.