Post by montereybride on Sept 12, 2014 13:09:20 GMT -5
And seriously, thank you to each and every one of you for the hugs and support. I have no idea what I want to do if I am. Or how the boy is going to react. I have to tell him, right? I mean, how the fuck does this work?
And seriously, thank you to each and every one of you for the hugs and support. I have no idea what I want to do if I am. Or how the boy is going to react. I have to tell him, right? I mean, how the fuck does this work?
Definitely tell him. Make the decision together. What ever you decide to do is ok. We are here for you.
And seriously, thank you to each and every one of you for the hugs and support. I have no idea what I want to do if I am. Or how the boy is going to react. I have to tell him, right? I mean, how the fuck does this work?
Definitely tell him. Make the decision together. What ever you decide to do is ok. We are here for you.
(((HUGS)))
Definitely let him know, but if you are of differing opinions in how to move forward, please remember it is ultimately your choice.
Big hugs to you. There is no right decision here. Only the one that is right for you.
And seriously, thank you to each and every one of you for the hugs and support. I have no idea what I want to do if I am. Or how the boy is going to react. I have to tell him, right? I mean, how the fuck does this work?
Definitely tell him. Make the decision together. What ever you decide to do is ok. We are here for you.
(((HUGS)))
That's terrible advice. Make your own decision, please. Tell him if you like.
Definitely tell him. Make the decision together. What ever you decide to do is ok. We are here for you.
(((HUGS)))
That's terrible advice. Make your own decision, please. Tell him if you like.
Yeah I agree with this. If you decide to keep the baby, you should probably let him know he's a father. If you decide not to keep it, then it's up to you if you want to share. And it's NOT up to him if you decide NOT TO keep it. Depending on the dude and your relationship with him, telling him now may just complicate things.
That's terrible advice. Make your own decision, please. Tell him if you like.
Yeah I agree with this. If you decide to keep the baby, you should probably let him know he's a father. If you decide not to keep it, then it's up to you if you want to share. And it's NOT up to him if you decide NOT TO keep it. Depending on the dude and your relationship with him, telling him now may just complicate things.
Well, I don't know whether to hug you or scream congrats. Somewhere in the middle? Sorry, love. I support you no matter what. As someone who got knocked up accidentally with a guy I barely knew, I can say that sometimes the universe knows what it's doing. (Though I was not going through a divorce at the time). Either way, love you and let me know if you need anything.
Post by lexxasaurus on Sept 12, 2014 13:45:27 GMT -5
Lots of hugs and once it isn't super fresh news you'll be able to think it through a little more clearly. I've been there and it definitely took a bit for me to get over the "OMG, WTF?!" stage. Plus, you're early, if you want to get your drink on this weekend - do it.
Tell the guy, don't tell him, whatever you think is going to be best for the relationship you two have. Just know that the decision is ultimately up to you and none of them are wrong decisions. You're gonna be okay!
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny