Post by HoneySpider on Sept 13, 2014 13:07:17 GMT -5
I'll probably delete all or part of this later so PDQ.
I believe I have briefly touched on the fact that DH has had a medical condition he's dealing with. I haven't said much because, well, I just don't think it's something that should be plastered all over the internet. And for that reason, everything I say here is also going to be pretty vague, so I apologize but you can understand why.
*Info here deleted*
Also, he got a call early in the week from the job in DC - they still are asking him to be patient and that an offer is coming. With all of this, that is the best thing that could happen right now. DH made it very clear that he's willing to be patient and wait. I am praying that all of this works out somehow and in a few months DH & I can be settled back together, in DC, with him in a new job.
I realize this is long and probably disjointed, it's hard to get these thoughts out but I wanted to let everyone know at least a little of what's going on. *Deleted here too*
And thanks for reading this and for thinking about me (heart)
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry you guys are facing this. I'm glad you'll have family support. If there is anything I can do while you're in Chicago, from driving you places to bringing food or whatever, please let me know! Big hugs.
Post by travelbug on Sept 13, 2014 13:39:47 GMT -5
Wow, what a stressful time. If you need anything just let me know. I will definitely be keeping you and your H in my thoughts and prayers. I hope this all blows over really soon for you both! ((hugs))
Post by cactuscookie on Sept 13, 2014 15:00:16 GMT -5
Oh HoneySpider, I'm so sorry. That's a lot to deal with. Health problems are so scary. You guys have had to make a lot of tough decisions in the last few weeks. I'm so glad your families are helping support you guys through this. I'll be thinking of you.
Huge hugs! I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this by yourself for so long. I'm really glad you're able to count on your families' support; it's so important. We're always here for support and venting!
Post by tiptoetulips on Sept 13, 2014 15:21:51 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear you all are going through this! I hope your h gets the help he needs and a job offer at the perfect time! I hope the move goes smoothly take care of yourself we are here if you need us
Post by HoneySpider on Sept 13, 2014 15:24:43 GMT -5
Thanks everyone, it really means a lot to me and I'm so glad to have the ladies on this board! It's so hard because I have ALWAYS been "the strong one" in whatever situation and I think everyone just expects that out of me...and I expect it out of myself too because I'm just so used to operating that way and so it naturally kicks in. But I think I've finally just crumbled, a person can seriously only take so much. I don't understand why we keep having to face difficult situations
Post by spankswife on Sept 13, 2014 15:29:23 GMT -5
Wow HoneySpider that's a lot to take on! I really hope your DH gets the help he needs and is on the road to a swift recovery. I know being away from him will be hard, but maybe it will be nice for you to be with your mom for awhile. Lots of hugs for you and your DH.
Post by ginkgoleaf on Sept 13, 2014 15:35:23 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you've been having to deal with so much lately. I hope your move goes smoothly and that your DH's treatment continues to go well. I'm a bit farther out, but feel free to also call on me when you're here. I'm fairly free now that I'm not working anymore. Take care of yourselves!
I hope everything settles down in your life soon and your husbands health issues become well managed. Good Luck with the move, it's awesome you have such supportive and helpful family to help take on this move!
Oh man, I just saw this. I'm so sorry --what a stressful situation.
Breathe and take it one thing at a time. Focusing on one of many little steps forward at a time can really help when you feel overwhelmed. Hang in there.
Post by estrellita on Sept 13, 2014 17:22:43 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you're going through this! I hope your H gets the treatment he needs and that everything works out for the best. You really deserve some good news for once! Lots of *hugs* and positive thoughts coming your way!
It sounds like you have a WONDERFUL support system in your family and his family. I'm so sorry you guys are going through all of this. It sounds like you made the best possible decision. Keeping my FX that your DH hears back about the job soon and that his recovery goes smoothly. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm sorry for all you are going through right now. That's so stressful with dealing with that much uncertainty. I hope the moves bring you guys some relief and better things moving forward. Take care of yourself and let others take care of you, too.
Post by HoneySpider on Sept 13, 2014 20:06:59 GMT -5
Thanks again everyone! I deleted most of the post, I don't feel comfortable having it out there. If you're a board regular and want to see the OP just PM me.
I am so sorry you are dealing with such a stressful situation. I hope the new plan brings a speedy recovery for your H and some peace/r&r for both of you by having your families be there for support.
I'm sorry y'all are having to deal with so much. I hope his treatment in Chicago goes well, and you're able to get some peace of mind while with your parents.