I missed the update. I hope you and your DH are doing OK. I'm praying for you guys big time! I certainly don't want any stress on you two. You're always in my thoughts and prayers, especially now. Many hugs!
HoneySpider, I haven't been around the boards much lately so I just saw this now. I didn't catch your deleted info so I don't know exactly what you are facing, but I'm sorry for whatever tough situation you guys are going through. I understand being 'the strong one', as that's what I am in the relationship as well (at least as far as logistics, finances etc. are concerned). Everyone needs a break at some point, and it sounds like you have a good plan in place to take care of yourself and a wonderful system of support.