“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
Post by noodleskooze on Sept 15, 2014 19:38:51 GMT -5
For labor and delivery, I really liked The Birth Partner. It's geared toward dads, and it leans toward med-free births, but it's very straight forward.
I bought all the typical books: what to expect, mayo's guide, blah blah. I hated them and didn't read them past 15 weeks or so. I bought A modern girl's guide to motherhood and really liked it. I read A Modern Girl's Guide to Life in college, so I was familiar with the writer.
Post by lovelovelove on Sept 15, 2014 20:03:23 GMT -5
Congrats! I kept Your Pregnancy Week by Week and Mayo Clinic on hand, but only used them as references when I had questions. I used the bump weekly updates and really liked those. I tried to stay away from reading too much so I didn't freak myself out more than I already was. Didn't get anything for H- just forwarded the bump updates occasionally.
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
Ina May Gaskin's Spiritual Midwifery, Guide to Pregnancy Childbirth, and Guide to Breastfeeding (if you're into that kind of thing) Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way I also found the Mayo Clinic book helpful, but more as a reference book when I had specific questions.
I got What to Expect with dd and wasn't overly impressed with it. I used it again for ds just because I had it but I also downloaded an app (sadly I can't remember which one though) and used that.
I liked Bringing Up Bebe. Including the not quite believable assertion that French babies almost all sleep through the night without crying it out by four months old. The sleep advice is worth reading, and the parenting advice was some of the best overall.
Post by Booze Raccoon on Sept 16, 2014 6:48:24 GMT -5
I actually liked Your Pregnancy Week by Week but like kande said, I only read it in the beginning when there was so much development. After the baby is formed and just kind of growing I really didn't consult it much.
I read a lot of articles on BabyCenter and *maybe* The Bump. I don't remember about TB and I didn't even look at the message boards. Basically every time something came up, I'd just research it. ie Glucose Test, Amnio, etc.
The best advice I have on that front is to read less about pregnancy and childbirth and more about actually having a kid. I focused almost exclusively on how I was going to push the kid out and had no fucking clue what to do once he got here. Lol.
Post by rupertpenny on Sept 16, 2014 7:13:06 GMT -5
I liked panic free pregnancy. I also read some books about med free birth, and even though I ended up with A LOT of medicine, I still thought they were helpful. The Bradley book was good as was Active Birth by Janet Balaskas. The exercises helped relax me. I also had a very easy recovery and I credit some of that to doing the yoga/stretching/pelvic floor exercises in these books.