I've started using a bedroom chart and it is MUCH better. I just printed it off, laminated it, and put Velcro beside each step. I printed a pic of her face and she moves it down and attached it to each step.
Bedtime is much shorter, easier, and more enjoyably. Not perfect, but such an improvement.
This is sheer brilliance! I love it! We had a step chart with DD1 when she was having bedtime troubles, but I never thought to do the Velcro face. Totally tucking this one away for when DD2 needs bedtime help.