The world talks too much shit about black women being low rent skank ass unmarried baby mamas for me to see feminist issues when a black woman takes her husband's last name, especially when she hyphenates it.
But for me, at minimum, if you want me to consider you a feminist, I need you to acknowledge that the world is an unequal place for women, that there are social, cultural, and legal barriers to equality, and acknowledge that those things need to change. You can argue over what those barriers are, how to change them, etc. But you need to articulate that they are there in some fashion.
A huge Feminist marquee sign behind your head while you employ women to exploit that inequality does not a feminist make.
Flawless actually includes a portion of a speech by Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichiei which speaks to many of these points.
"We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, you can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you would threaten the man. Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support but why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors not for jobs or accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are. Feminist: a person who believes in the social, political, economic equality of the sexes.”