Post relationship bombshells

[MarmeeNoir]

Oct 13, 2014 22:47:58 GMT -5 speckledfrog said:

Oct 13, 2014 22:40:57 GMT -5 amberlyrose said:

One of the radio ones was along this line. She found out her boyfriend used to sleep with his stepsister (they were teens when the parents got married).

I need a Fuckstick wat face up in here.

Oh! This happened to me, but we weren't in a serious relationship. Just started talking when I found out he was banging her. They had a kid together, then she had another one with his half brother. Another guy in town who is now with his brothers ex-wife. She had kids with both of them.

There is also a family where the daughter had a kid with her moms boyfriend.

[elleblue]

Oct 14, 2014 0:39:09 GMT -5 MarmeeNoir said:

Oct 13, 2014 22:47:58 GMT -5 speckledfrog said:

I need a Fuckstick wat face up in here.

Oh! This happened to me, but we weren't in a serious relationship. Just started talking when I found out he was banging her. They had a kid together, then she had another one with his half brother. Another guy in town who is now with his brothers ex-wife. She had kids with both of them.

There is also a family where the daughter had a kid with her moms boyfriend.

That is some straight up soap opera ish right there.

[Captain Serious]

I dated a guy who was supposed to be a recovered crack addict. Except when he was kneecapped while I was away one weekend, possibly while trying to sell or trade a stolen radio, and I realized he has relapsed.

[jayha]

I 'dated' a guy from another school when I was 14, 15? He always talked about what a stud he was on his school's varsity volleyball team, but I found out he was only on JV. Deal breaker! Haha. He was a dick in a lot other ways, anyway.

I can't think of any from my more mature relationships.

[jlt19]

My HS sweetheart was one of 6 kids. We found out in HS that the oldest was not the father's child and then found out about 5 years later that the youngest was not the father's child either. I'm still skeptical if HE is the father's child as well b/c he looks so different than the rest of the family. The three middle boys all look exactly alike, so pretty sure they're all full siblings. Parents never divorced either.

[luckyval]

I found out in the midst of a fight that an ex was a cutter. I found him in the bathroom with his wrist shredded.

[mrsukyankee]

My first fiance (when I was 25) was a medical student. He was sleeping with a nurse the whole time we were engaged (which was short) and acted all butt-hurt when I broke things off as the relationship wasn't going well. His mom called my mom a year later to let us know he was engaged to a nurse...yup, the same one. Ass.

[Dagny]

I had no idea that my ex-boyfriend was a huge drug dealer until after we broke up. He'd take me to fancy restaurants, and it was like that scene at the diner in Fight Club - Waiter: "Everything is free of charge for you, Sir." Marla/Me: "Why? WHY is it free?" Turns out he was the dealer to all these people. But he was also a super-charismatic bartender, so I figured everyone just knew him through that. Nope.

[Deleted]

I found out during a breakup that my bf had not been paying the Comcast bill like he had promised when we split expenses.

[Linie]

15 years ago, I got engaged to someone I had dated for 2 years (but not living together).

Four months after our engagement, he called me at the office telling me he was an alcohol addict for about ten years (3 bottles of wine a day) and that it was my fault! I had never encountered someone who had troubles with alcohol and I didn't see any sign.

We tried to patch things up, but he kept relapsing and blaming me for it. And then he dropped me when I had a cancer scare...

[sandytoes]

Oct 14, 2014 8:50:24 GMT -5 @clarissa said:

I remember the day my boyfriend sat me down and told me his ex wife was also his first cousin.
I was grossed out at first, but I married him anyway.

Wuuuuttt??!

[Deleted]

I dated someone for almost a year. He had two kids plus one on the way (2 different baby mommas). After we broke up he told me he had a fourth kid but no one knew it was his because the (3rd) baby momma was his friend's wife so she passed off the kid as her husband's! She eventually left her husband (when he was in jail) and now she is married to my ex. Oh, and he was only 27. 4 kids, 3 moms and only 27.

[cc]

Not a bombshell because the guy was hiding something, but I was shocked to find out someone I had dated passed away suddenly in his sleep. I don't know what the official cause of death was, but I felt bad that I didn't know he died until a year after his death.

[notsocreepylurker]

When I first moved to Houston I started dating a really nice guy. He was attractive, funny, popular, connected business-wise. One night I was hanging out with some mutual friends of ours and he was running late. The guys started talking about the best BJs they had ever gotten and us girls were chatting about some TV show. I got up to get more diet coke when I heard my friend's husband say that my boyfriend gave THE BEST head. Color me shocked!

Now, I didn't care if he was bi but he had NEVER mentioned it to me. I asked him about it later, we got in a fight and that was the last time we spoke.

[cc]

Oh, and my ex (DD1's father) was cheating on me when DD was an infant, but that didn't shock me. I think the bombshell went to the girl he was cheating on me with because he had told her he was single without any kids and when they were on the phone once, DD was crying in the background and he said it was his cousin's baby. Even the picture he sent to her was a lie. He was wearing scrubs from the c-section with our daughter and he told her he was going into surgery with his friend who was scared of having a knee surgery.

[autumnfire]

Oct 13, 2014 21:32:22 GMT -5 snipsnsnails said:

Oh, I have the bombshell to beat all bombshells. It's not mine, but someone we know. Found out their ex left b/c she ended up pregnant by her cousin. There is so much more to the convoluted, crazy, awful story. That's just the tip of the iceberg.

Just the tip, eh? Sorry bad joke lol.

[jsillyfun]

Oct 14, 2014 8:41:55 GMT -5 @bettyhomewrecker33 said:

I found out during a breakup that my bf had not been paying the Comcast bill like he had promised when we split expenses.

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Not even kidding that is the worst one in this thread.

[Waffles]

Had a serious relationship with a guy through the last couple years of high school, and first year of college. I thought he was "the one". We were both pretty depressed though. I decided we should take "a break" and see how things go. I was very happy during the break. He called me after the break, and I didn't answer - never talked to him again.
The day after he called me, we saw in the newspaper that he had been in jail for raping a 13 year old.
He had called me the day he got out of jail.
Nope.Nope.Nope.

So - it wasn't going on during our relationship, but it went on during our break - and either way was quite shocking.

[ssmjlm]

Went out with a guy on a few dates, nothing came of it. Found out later from friends that he apparently was in the middle of divorce, sort of (as in, just separated I guess). Never even told me he had been married.

[wambam]

I don't know if this counts, but my ex right before Mr. Wambam married an 18yo girl who was fresh out of high school (he was 23). She got knocked up on their wedding night. Then she cheated on him and she left him. They got divorced and she got cancer. It was a whole mess and I felt awful for him.

That's my only interesting ex.