I said I would like to but I'm too shy. H and I have tried, a little, and we just burst out laughing. We just feel dumb doing it. I'd like to try, though. Anyone have any tips on how to not sound/feel stupid?
I think you should start small, don't be too ambitious. It doesn't need to sound like a porno!
For instance, you say "I like it when you ____" or "That feels good" or "I can't wait until you _____". Use words you're comfortable with. You just go with the mood.
Same here. Too shy. Whenever we do say anything along the lines of dirty, we are both laughing about it. And thinking of some things... I would just feel stupid.
This poll was inspired by the Sex and the City episode where Miranda's guy wants her to talk dirty, and she feels really out of her element. Finally she gets into it but goes a step too far and turns him off.
I do have a funny story. We were getting a little frisky one day and DH goes to whisper something in my ear. Thinking it was going to be something dirty, he leans in and whispers, "we need half and half." I laughed so hard lol.
Post by estrellita on Oct 15, 2014 12:46:19 GMT -5
I can't take it seriously, lol. There have been times H will say something and I try so hard not to laugh because I don't want him to feel bad, lol. I would also be terrible at it, which is probably why I can't take it seriously!
I ask H to do it frequently, but I die laughing if I try. And it doesn't get super dirty (more like sexy narration of what he wants to do/is doing). We're relatively tame.