Post by creamsiclechica on Oct 22, 2014 14:09:33 GMT -5
Not selfish, honey. I understand exactly what you mean, and with your sleep issues, it might be best to outsource a little. I would try 50/50 ratio until she gets it? Big hugs, you're doing a great job!
I don't have experience with weaning "early", but it's not selfish if it's making you a better person/mom. Breastfeeding takes a lot out of you!
I think the morning feeding would be the toughest to drop first. Milk production is highest overnight/early AM, plus you'd have the additional time from overnight sleeping. I would start with a midday bottle first.
Remember that you can combo feed, too! Nurse morning/bedtime and do all other bottles. Then, if you ever want to be gone at bedtime, you know a bottle is no big deal (and you can decide whether or not you want to pump.
Post by ladystardust on Oct 22, 2014 14:17:37 GMT -5
The actual switching to formula wasn't too bad (also at 6 months). Had to try a couple brands to find what works best but that was just trial and error.
For us it was getting her to take a bottle. I would do one feeding a day from a bottle. Since she was going to daycare we had to make it work. I think she finally started taking one the week before she started.
If she's already good with that, then I bet it will be pretty easy!
This was me. I just stopped about 3-4 weeks ago my supply was getting lower and I just needed my body back. We just slowly introduced a bottle or two a day to see what he would take (I had samples around the house). I miss it a little at bedtime just for the snuggling factor, but am fine with it in every other way. He was kind of pissed for about a week, but hasn't had any issues since. The worst part was the engorgement trying to get my supply to finish drying up.
Do what works for you, there's nothing wrong with switching no matter what your reason is. I BF'd exclusively for 4mos, then did a mix of daytime formula/nightime BF until we reached 9mos, then switched completely to formula for the last few months until cow's milk. When I ended the daytime pumping at work, I just cut it down gradually. I was doing 3 sessions (morning, lunch, afternoon). The next week I cut out lunch and shifted the morning/afternoon a bit. Then the third week I cut down to one mid-day session. It was not uncomfortable at all, my body adjusted to the gradual cutback.
If you're feeding directly, I'd just gradually switch a feeding over to bottles 1-2 feedings at a time over the weeks, and hand express a bit (but not fully) to release any discomfort.
Don't feel bad! I started making the switch when DS was 3 months old. I switched one bottle at a time and did not mix. He was not picky as long as there was food.
I only switched him during the day because I didn't want to pump at work. I still BFed in the morning/evening until he self-weaned at 10 months. I liked BFing so that worked well for me.