I vote not. But then again, I'm considering keeping a bubble gun in the car to deploy when DS starts screaming his head off while I'm driving. Fire that thing up and the screaming will stop, I'm certain.
I hate guns and will avoid them. Honestly, though, we have one of these and I never even made the gun connection
I didn't think of it until we were talking last night. I want to get her one of the no spill bubble holders and maybe a machine. She probably couldn't figure out how to use the bubble gun.
But DH and I do have different views on guns, so I'm trying to have an open mind about it.
We have them. But honestly, my stance on toy guns has mellowed a lot T since having kids. I hate guns. My H hates guns. We do not and never will own a real gun. My H has never even shot one. Initially, we planned to have a no toy guns policy. Then we had kids, and watched them make toy guns out of Legos, toast, action figures, hairbrushes, a Barbie doll (true story), and I did some more reading on childhood development and pretend play and decided that some measure of gun play is developmentally normal. I still do not buy toy guns beyond the water or bubble variety, but if someone else buys them one, they make one, one comes with their Halloween costume, etc., I don't confiscate it (though I would if it looked realistic enough that I feared it could be confused with a real gun). Nor to I stop gun play as long as all parties involved are willing participants in what everyone knows is a game (i.e., no going up to unsuspecting people and saying "bang, you're dead"). I am comfortable with this approach.
Honestly, both my DH and brother had tons of toy guns as kids, and they are both ardent pacifists and gun haters now. I am not in any way convinced that allowing some gun play creates violent people, teaches kids that guns are toys, or otherwise does anything with lasting negative consequences.