After a weekend of crappy luck with dating, I decided to rejoin match.com this morning. So I un-hide my profile and my first message... my very first message is from a guy that I did not contact or view his profile or ever before see in my life. And he had a nasty comment to make about my weight. What the fuck is wrong with this world? Who does that???
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Whoa. I'm so sorry. What a fucking jerk. Sorry about his tiny penis.
Ugh I wish I had thought to make a comeback about his tiny penis! That's awesome. It's probably too late not because I already said "Aren't you charming"
I was messaging with another guy and he asked me if I workout, and I said no. And he said "go fuck yourself". I feel like I'm in the twilight zone.
I am not understanding how this is happening to you. It almost doesn't seem possible for that many guys to be that gross on a regular basis.
Yup, this is where I'm camping.
Is your description on body shape correct, because otherwise these people would need to be seeking out your body type/shape/weight to harass you, right?
I am not understanding how this is happening to you. It almost doesn't seem possible for that many guys to be that gross on a regular basis.
Yup, this is where I'm camping.
Is your description on body shape correct, because otherwise these people would need to be seeking out your body type/shape/weight to harass you, right?
I'm not sure I understand the question, but I have full length pictures that are recent and I'm height/weight proportionate. The guy that asked about the gym said, "you're in great shape, do you workout?" and I don't so I said no.
Yes, but at size 10/12, even if my full body pics looked great and I was complimented on my frame, I would still list an "average" or "curvy" designation on my profile. That way people who are searching for "thin" or "lots to love" aren't hitting my profile in their searches. I was asking if your body shape designation actually matched your body shape, b/c it could be a search function issue.
I guess if they don't care, they don't care and you'll show up anyways, but like @stpete said... it seems odd.
Yes, but at size 10/12, even if my full body pics looked great and I was complimented on my frame, I would still list an "average" or "curvy" designation on my profile. That way people who are searching for "thin" or "lots to love" aren't hitting my profile in their searches. I was asking if your body shape designation actually matched your body shape, b/c it could be a search function issue.
I guess if they don't care, they don't care and you'll show up anyways, but like @stpete said... it seems odd.
WTF is right. I don't get it to seek people out and insult. If you're basing your judgement on a pic and don't feel attracted to a person then just move on...why be nasty? Dont lose hope though because of assholes.
When I was online dating I was very, very discouraged most of the time because it seemed as though the majority of men in my area were only looking for the petite or thin or athletic/toned body types on match. At a 5'8 and size 16, that ain't me even though I'm very proportionate. I also had full body shots that were realistic and some guys would just keep asking for more body shots after exchanging emails etc before meeting me and it made me feel very self conscious. I did meet my bf online (POF)..and he loves my body.(and the rest of me!)...so there!
Post by Mrs.Rad888 on Oct 28, 2014 14:35:32 GMT -5
What is that dumbass pickup game that douches play? The one where they basically put you down, but still pay minimal attention to you. Apparently you are so desperate that you'll be grateful for any attention. I wonder if that's what is going on here.
What is that dumbass pickup game that douches play? The one where they basically put you down, but still pay minimal attention to you. Apparently you are so desperate that you'll be grateful for any attention. I wonder if that's what is going on here.
What is that dumbass pickup game that douches play? The one where they basically put you down, but still pay minimal attention to you. Apparently you are so desperate that you'll be grateful for any attention. I wonder if that's what is going on here.
Omg do people really do that? They need to get a hobby. The funny thing is that I wouldn't have given that guy the time of day. He wasn't even good looking and he was bald. I don't understand if you don't like someone's profile or pictures just let them be and move on.
Ugggg that sucks so hard! I feel like men think it's totally okay to put women down who don't live up to their version of physical beauty because duh, that's our whole point in life, to please them. But seriously it's sick how many men I know (coworkers, business associates, friends of friends) who could don't give two fucks what a girl is like from a personality standpoint. It's really only about looks and a hot bod. I'm clearly veering off the topic, but I'm just so sick of the idea that only attractive people are worthy of love. And I think online dating exacerbates that. The vast majority of men I've heard talk about online dating don't even read the profiles.
Okay that's my super long tangent. I know there are good guys out there. They are just so hard to find.