I'm so very sorry for your loss. I lost my little cousin to cancer last year and have a lot of similar regrets about not visiting her before it was too late. There was no way you could have predicted what would happen so please try not to dwell on that, though I know how hard it is. Please feel free to PM me if you want to talk. I will keep your family and your precious nephew in my thoughts.
Post by asoctoberfalls on Nov 5, 2014 16:43:04 GMT -5
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine.
Don't beat yourself up. You had no way of knowing he would pass so quickly. And your nephew certainly didn't feel unloved - I'm sure he knew you were planning to come.
I'm so sorry. Please be kind to yourself. You couldn't have known when his final moments would be. Don't let your grief/anger/disappointment overwhelm the good memories you have. Many, many (((hugs)))
I hope you can let yourself off the hook for not visiting. You made the best decision you could at the time given the information you had. You cannot fault yourself for that.
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