I am so sorry for your loss. I remember you posting about him before and am sad to hear that he has passed. Please go easy on yourself. There is no way you could have known.
Post by sporklemotion on Nov 5, 2014 18:09:50 GMT -5
I am very sorry for your loss. I hope that, in time, you can forgive yourself for not visiting. Cancer can progress very quickly and unpredictably, and it is hard to know what to do. I am sure that he knew that you loved him and I am sure he loved you, and in the end, that is the most important thing. I hope that the end was peaceful for him and that he did not suffer, and that you and your family can help each other through the grief. Be kind to yourself and each other, and I will keep you all in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry I lost my aunt very unexpectedly three years ago and I had a lot of regrets about not being there when she passed, how I rushed out of her house the last time I spoke with her, etc. However, I eventually found the silver lining that while she passed quickly before I could say goodbye, that also meant she didn't suffer long.
I hope you're able to find a similar comfort eventually knowing that his quick passing was a blessing because cancer is a bitch. He knew you guys loved him. **hugs**