Update on my mom.

[iamali]

Is she protected financially?

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[iamali]

Nov 9, 2014 19:46:04 GMT -5 letsgetweird said:

Nov 9, 2014 19:43:12 GMT -5 iamali said:

Is she protected financially?

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I don't know. Not sure what she would do to protect herself other than not give him money?

Ugh. She needs to be very careful. Like with account numbers and stuff. Do you think you could talk her into seeing a lawyer?

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[McGavin]

I'm sure it's still so unsettling but I'm glad you feel better. What is the reasoning they give for the move? What about his place?

[olegregg]

I hope she'll be cautious.

[lostlenore]

Nov 9, 2014 19:46:04 GMT -5 letsgetweird said:

Nov 9, 2014 19:43:12 GMT -5 iamali said:

Is she protected financially?

Sent from my defective S3.

I don't know. Not sure what she would do to protect herself other than not give him money?

She should make sure he has no access to her bank statements, etc. My sister had a douchebag live-in boyfriend who easily stole from her because he had access to her bank statements & account information.

[lime]

I hate to be a Debbie Downer, but I'm sure this guy can say almost anything to be charming enough in a visit with you and still be a total con artist.

What did you end up deciding on the background check?

[bonquiqui]

Did she happen to say why they were moving in together so fast?

[lilac05]

I'm glad you feel a little better after meeting him. It sounds like you & your mom were able to have a decent conversation instead of her just shutting down. Hopefully he's as nice as his first impression was!

As far as finances, don't give money, no access to bank accounts, no shared credit cards, no auto fill for credit cards on iPads/computers, etc.

[sunshineluv]

I am glad you met him. I am so sorry about all of this.

[pixelpassion]

I'm glad that you got at least a little bit more peace of mind.

[rosiebear]

I'm really glad she's letting you in and you are talking. I'm glad that meeting him didn't send off any alarms (any additional ones, I guess).

I know you are in a very tough place; I'm sorry.

[yourmother]

I'm glad you feel better.

Do you know what this guy's plan is for money? Is he retired or does he have plans to get a job?

[cville]

I am glad you're feeling cautiously optimistic.

[yourmother]

Nov 9, 2014 21:34:41 GMT -5 letsgetweird said:

Nov 9, 2014 21:28:52 GMT -5 yourmother said:

I'm glad you feel better.

Do you know what this guy's plan is for money? Is he retired or does he have plans to get a job?

He has a job interview tomorrow.


He did not move here to be with my mom. His sister lives here and he moved down about a month ago.

Ok! This sounds like a much better situation than what you originally thought. Again, I'm glad this is making more sense and that you are somewhat more comfortable with the situation.