Need dating advice for a friend

[onomatopoeia]

Does he have any other interests? It sounds like he only has one thing in common with these girls - working out. This is convenient if he spends a lot of time at the gym, but will only get him so far. I might encourage him to look outside the gym. Maybe he's also trying too hard during these dates, or expecting too much (not necessarily physically, but maybe expecting too much commitment after a first date or something)?

Are all these girls from the same gym? ETA: I ask because these girls might not be taking him too seriously if he keeps asking out different girls at the same gym. Word gets around.

I think match.com is a good suggestion. I thought Tinder was for hookups too, which is great if that's what he wants. It sounds like he's looking for a relationship though?

[sapphireblue]

I personally would recommend OKCupid over Match. I know a few people who have profiles on each site and they all agree that OKC is better.

Although of course there are people on OKC looking for just sex, I still think his odds are better in that it is going to mostly be women looking for love.

It's hard to say if he is doing something wrong. I tend to doubt it--it's just hard to find someone with whom you have great chemistry!

[sapphireblue]

Oh, and also, OKC is free. I would recommend paying the optional $9.95 per month to get a few extra benefits, but many people never do that.

[livinitup]

What is he "asking" that he keeps getting turned down?

Is it vague?
Or dinner?

[Deleted]

I would say eHarmony if he actually wants a girlfriend.