FIL news

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He has pneumonia and is in the hospital Could use some major vibes! They're thinking they're going to keep him over the weekend. Meanwhile, MIL is now sick at home.

**POOF**
Thanks everyone.  I needed to share <3

[Kahala]

Im so sorry, thats some heavy stuff. How is H dealing with all this?? I get the grandkid guilt, but dont feel too bad cause its not something u can control.

[InBetweenDays]

I'm so sorry @ksta.  No matter how unfounded, I think it ic completely normal to have those feelings. And while you care for and provide support to your FIL and family, remember to care for yourself as well. ((hugs))

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Oh hon. I'm sorry if you need anything let me know. We go grab drinks or something.

[larzhope]

I'm so sorry @ksta. I hope you are at least able to enjoy this Christmas and make it special. (((hugs)))

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H isn't too good about talking about things but I try to draw it out of him. He was sad when he came back from the hospital last night so I hugged him for a bit.

[madDawg228]

(hug)IK (hug2)  Sending lots of vibes that your FIL is able to heal from the pneumonia, and your MIL doesn't have it.

Grief and guilt can go hand-in-hand, but I hope the whole family can enjoy this holiday season and that it's extra special (hug) (hug2)

[dana86]

I am so sorry IK and sending you many hugs and good vibes. This is really hard stuff to have weighing on a person. Just try to enjoy the time you guys have and make it as happy and peaceful for all of you guys. Feel no guilt I'm sure he is very happy and proud of all that you have contributed to the family and the happiness you bring.

[mkate710]

Big huge hugs IK!! I know you've been a wonderful daughter in law to him. Your family is in my thoughts.

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I'm so sorry @ksta. Sending you and your family lots and lots of positive vibes.

*hugest hugs ever*

[sotally tober]

I'm so sorry, @ksta. You and your family are in my thoughts.

[fiddles]

So sorry you and your H are going through this. Try and treasure the moments you have with FIL.

[tacocat]

I'm so sorry KAT, it is so hard. Lots of hugs and healing thoughts!