Post by Emerald1486 on Dec 12, 2014 22:20:45 GMT -5
Wow, that is just a scary kind of crazy... All because you didn't call him when he said to... Controlling and insecure is what that says to me I hope you don't believe what he said.
It is upsetting that there are guys like this out there. I try to tell myself to be glad he showed his crazy before I got involved. And that guys can act a lot crazier than they would in real life when online. I don't know if that last one is true but I tell that to myself anyway. It sucks because guys like this (plus other types) make me not want to online date at all.
Post by Wanderista on Dec 12, 2014 23:20:40 GMT -5
Wow, yeah, he is totally nuts. I get what you mean. It sucks that people can be like that, but be glad you aren't like him. At the end of the day, he is stuck with himself and you aren't.
Did you respond? I wouldn't think that a, "Bullet. Dodged," or something of the sort would be out of line. You could at least thank the guy for validating your decision.
Did you respond? I wouldn't think that a, "Bullet. Dodged," or something of the sort would be out of line. You could at least thank the guy for validating your decision.
After I told him that insulting me wouldn't increase his odds, he ranted for a few pages and at that point I just unmatched. He really feels women owe him, like kuus says, and I don't think anyone can convince him that I didn't owe him what he wanted. really disturbing.
I missed where you had replied. No, I wouldn't reply again. I only hope he continues to show his true colors to other potential dates so early on in the process.
Make sure you keep screenshots of his rants, that way if he makes it as a comedian, you can post them on something like Reddit. Part of me wants you to tell us his name, so we can keep an eye out for his comedy act, and boo him if we ever see him on stage.
This is pretty much the type of guy that I was talking about recently. He probably thinks he is a "nice guy" and feels entitled. He doesn't get why women keep passing him up. (I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with being single, just that these kinds of guys tend to think that women owe them and the world owes them). Several of my friends and I talk about guys like that. They tend to end up as bitter internet trolls or just bitter losers in general.
I tend to think of them as Darwin's dustbin. I also think that there are a lot of men out there who need to deal with feelings of anger and entitlement - not all guys, obviously, just this type.