Why do ex-boyfriends like to contact me on holidays to let me know they'd still screw me if I'm interested? Ugh guess I'll be hearing from him again next week too
Did we date the same guy?? M texted me and I shut that shit down real quick.
He's lonely. I'm not lonely enough to put myself back in that situation. I told him that and said this isn't happening. Peace out mother Fucker.
Good for you! I basically told him we're not looking for the same things and he said ok. Lol he doesn't even try to talk me into it. It's usually a half assed attempt to get me to sleep with him.
Post by wanderlustmom on Dec 28, 2014 19:26:39 GMT -5
I almost got engaged to someone who was really not right for me. We were good friends and did not have chemistry. It reminded me we can rationalize and deny almost anything. I was way too old to make that mistake too (24). My parents had warned me about the dangers of te wrong relationship, my friends saw it,etc. etc. It didn't matter--leaving him was really hard and I had to make my decision on my own. Anyway, the reason I stayed in denial and almost married him was that I was insecure and since I hadn't known true love before--I didn't realize how fulfilling a real relationship could be. I felt secure in every area of my life--just not romantic love. Somehow I figured out being single was preferable to that relationship. I was totally single for six months and then met my DH.
Nothing has been perfect--but after 11 years of marriage--I really love him and the relationship is healthy. But I could totally see me going the other way all those years ago and marrying the wrong guy and being really unhappy now with kids with him or having a divorce. So yes, I think it's going to be hard--just keep listening to your inner voice and believing that with the right guy--nothing will be so hard and it will all be worth it. But love yourself first and really know yourself.