Post by sparkythelawyer on Dec 17, 2014 13:05:34 GMT -5
Sorry man. I think you were trying to just vent, and on this board we never seem to understand that. We go straight into "fix it" mode, and that can suck to be on the receiving end. Best of luck to you.
Nooooooooooooooooo. I am disappointed in the posters who felt it necessary to feelings-shame you in that other thread. I 100% got that you were simply sharing your feelings--right, wrong, irrational, etc. One thing that I learned in counseling was that you are entitled to your feelings. You can feel some kind of way about anything in the entire world! You don't have to justify them by stating that you're going to act or not act on them, or apologize for them, etc. Now, if you start posting that you went over there to BD's house all, "Burn this shit down, Ima craaazy MFer! I WANNA SEE BD DAMMIT" and such, then bring on the judgment, etc. from this community (and people IRL and law enforcement, LOL). I truly didn't understand some of the responses. I wanted to reply A LOT but couldn't exactly put what was bothering me about it all (and I'm still not sure I am putting it right even now).
Please don't leave.
And if others have a problem with what I just wrote, come for me, flame away.
Not one person "feelings-shamed" stpete. Evaluate yourself.
You actually did. At least by my definition. As did several others (that I won't bother to call out).
And obviously @stpete thought so too, or else she wouldn't have felt it necessary to GBCN.
You actually did. At least by my definition. As did several others (that I won't bother to call out).
And obviously @stpete thought so too, or else she wouldn't have felt it necessary to GBCN.
Evaluate myself. LOL.
Presumably stpete knows me better than that. And she left for a number of reasons; I don't flatter myself that I had much to do with it. I'm lol that you're calling ME out, but not anyone else. Fuck off, asshole.
Only because you came at me first. Normally I don't say anything, which I why I didn't respond to the first thread. And now it's devolved into name calling. OK.
Post by pantaloons55 on Dec 17, 2014 13:39:45 GMT -5
@stpete I don't interact all that much here, but I do follow your BD updates which I have been reading along with a happy heart. I wish you nothing but good things. Take good care.