I don't know you well at all, but I have been following your story with your bd. I hope thing work out well for you guys. I'm sorry it doesn't look like you will get to see her before the holidays, and I hope your relationship continues to progress. Good luck with everything, and I am sad to see you go.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Nooooooooooooooooo. I am disappointed in the posters who felt it necessary to feelings-shame you in that other thread. I 100% got that you were simply sharing your feelings--right, wrong, irrational, etc. One thing that I learned in counseling was that you are entitled to your feelings. You can feel some kind of way about anything in the entire world! You don't have to justify them by stating that you're going to act or not act on them, or apologize for them, etc. Now, if you start posting that you went over there to BD's house all, "Burn this shit down, Ima craaazy MFer! I WANNA SEE BD DAMMIT" and such, then bring on the judgment, etc. from this community (and people IRL and law enforcement, LOL). I truly didn't understand some of the responses. I wanted to reply A LOT but couldn't exactly put what was bothering me about it all (and I'm still not sure I am putting it right even now).
Please don't leave.
And if others have a problem with what I just wrote, come for me, flame away.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Post by venice2007 on Dec 17, 2014 12:33:20 GMT -5
I'm sorry to see you go! God bless you in everything and I hope to see you around here again soon! Maybe I'll finally be able to attend a Tampa gtg and see you then!
You know I love you girl. If you need to step away, that is cool...but know that there are people here who will be happy to see you if you come back.
I'm sorry you feel like you can't fully say what you need to say. But I get it, you are in a super emotional place and even well meaning criticisms sound to harsh.
You have my number, I hope you will stay in touch.