Shit, I'm so sorry. I don't have any advice, but I'm thinking of you right now. It is probably a good idea to let him sleep it off in jail tonight if that's an option. The Recovery board may also have some good advice? Hugs to you.
Post by snipsnsnails on Dec 17, 2014 21:10:37 GMT -5
Oh al, I'm sorry. Turn to us. No matter what happens from here, you have my full support in whatever you need. I will help in any way, even just to listen. So much love to you.
Oh Alzi. I am so very sorry. Like many have already said, we're here for you. Please let us know what we can do to support you. You and your little are in my thoughts. You'll get through this.
I am so sorry, I have been there. Let him deal with the natural consequences of his action, don't try to talk to him if there are any signs he is still drunk, and look up a local Al Anon meeting because you are going to want to have a safe outlet to deal with all of the emotions. I am always willing to PM if you need to talk.
Post by liverandonions on Dec 17, 2014 21:13:03 GMT -5
I am so sorry. I think you need to stand firm on what you and A need from him to be a good husband and father. He's done it before and can do it again. Addiction is horrible, but it's easier to get clean again then it is the first time. Many hugs.