Do you ever bribe your DH with sexual favors?

[bk1]

I told DH I would give him a bj if he got the plumbing working today.

When it was time to fulfill my promise he asked me to wear an old pirate Halloween costume. I said sure honey, I was really grateful to have water. Anything you want. ;-) We had a good time.

[estrellita]

Haha.. whatever works right?

I don't think I ever have but hey, maybe that's the motivation he needs to do more around here? Hmm...

[bk1]

I do it all the time. Does that sound bad? For the record I planned on doing it either way tonight but he doesn't need to know that.

[sarahsas]

I have before. I'm impressed that you can give a be while pregnant bk1! I can barely brush my back molars with my pregnant gag reflex. No hope in even trying a bj!

[Deleted]

I haven't, except in a joking way, but I wouldn't be against it if it got things done .

[MrsAggie]

Yup. DH is a fan of those promises.

[grover]

I have jokingly in the past, but H has a super low drive, so I don't bother anymore.

[awick14]

Yep, it's a pretty effective way of getting things done. I haven't tried it in a while though. This months to do list is long....

[Deleted]

Yes. I get things done and DH gets laid. It's a win win lol.

[pooh8402]

No, for 2 reasons. One, I wouldn't follow through. Two, we agreed way at the beginning of our relationship not to use sex as a weapon, whether for favors or withholding for punishment.

[travelbug]

I have never done it, no. I told H about this post and he said that does seem like a great way to get me to do things at a quicker pace LOL! So I know he's not opposed to the idea.

[MrsMB]

I don't...it wouldn't work for us.

[bk1]

I had never thought of it as a weapon or anything like that before I started posting here. I can see where some people see it that way.

Our conversation went like

DH: I'm gonna fix the sewer line tonight, I'm tired of it messing up.
Me: That's awesome. I bet I can reward ya for that when you are done. 

So I didn't really "bribe" him as much as just like he had already decided he was going to do it and I just wanted to give him extra motivation. Lol. Works for us!

[awick14]

bk1- that is what I have done as well. I have never seriously used sex as a bride, I more just tease him with it.