Post by estrellita on Jan 20, 2015 10:57:37 GMT -5
1. Being faithful. 2. Hmm.. I think lying/cheating also. I've been a lot better about my trust issues, but it still takes a lot for me to get past even small lies.
1. Christian, same morals as me. if anything, he's MORE moral than me, heh. 2. gosh, this is a long list. lack of integrity (my H loves golf because the game is all about integrity, you keep your own score, so this was major bonus points), and smoking. he dips snuff, working on quitting, but I threw a major hissy fit in the middle of a bar when he bummed a cig from his friend. I cried because I thought I'd have to break up with him. we'd been dating a couple months. I like mrssandro's answer of lack of ambition/no drive. agree with that.
HS, you just reminded me of another must-have: he had to be an Aggie fan. he didn't have to attend (DH didn't), but had to be a fan at least as much as me and my dad. I wanted someone who supported me in my love for Aggie football and baseball, and would attend traditional events with me like Muster and Bonfire.