Confessions/vents

[wowhead]

PDQ

H and I have had sex once since September. Between my epic period, ablation and other medical shit and his foreskin tears and circumcision it just hasn't been possible. He still has stitches so it's going to be at least 3 more weeks. I miss him!

[sparkythelawyer]

This morning I tried to put on one of my husband's button downs to try to string something vaguely work appropriate together for my 38 week pregnant ass. IT DIDN'T FIT.

Then I cracked a filling and the dentist cannot see me until tomorrow.

I'm going to go drown my feelings in donuts right now.

[cuddlyevil]

I don't like Taylor Swift.

I won't have the kids this weekend and I want to do something slightly irresponsible but don't know what to do

[verypunny]

I found out my miscarriage had no chromosomal abnormalities, I was also carrying a girl. I feel broken and I wish I knew why this happened, it makes me think it's my fault. I know it isn't but I can't keep my mind from going there.

[silva]

So sorry, verypunny. I know how much it hurts (I've had 2 mc), be good to yourself. hugs.

[Monica Geller]

Hugs verypunny

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Jan 29, 2015 10:40:06 GMT -5 tators said:

I am getting 50s style pin-up/ housewife maternity photos done. I feel like I should be ashamed.

No nudity or naked belly though.

Do it! This sounds awesome. 

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Hugs @verypunny

[iamali]

((( verypunny )))

You did nothing wrong. I'm sorry you're hurting.

[cleo29]

Something I have started to notice at my gym is people who are doing a circuit will do their planks or pushups right in the middle of the floor or walkway. Last night, it was right outside the door the cycle room. I don't get it because there are other areas near the other machines they are using that would be safer and less obtrusive.

[styme46]

Jan 29, 2015 10:48:59 GMT -5 verypunny said:

(((HUGS))) it's not your fault at all. I'm sorry for your loss.

My vent is that I am irritated that everyone is releasing their Superbowl commercials already. Now I have absolutely zero reason to watch it since I don't give a crap about either team playing. The commercials are half the reason to watch the game, dammit! Stop spoiling them for me!

[cleo29]

Very puny, it was not you. I think even without a glaring chromosomal issue, there can still be things that are just not right. I am so sorry you are hurting but be kind to yourself.

[SKP82]

I am seeing more and more anti-vax stuff posted (particularly in my local mom FB group) and it is making me rage.

This week, someone posted that she needed to know how to get an exemption for her 4 year old to attend VPK because she didn't want him to get the rest of his vaccinations. So she received advice on how to lie to the health department that her beliefs have changed. She updated today that she easily got the exemption form.

This shit is making me sick.

[deanlicker78]

Our maintenance manager caught one of his employees masturbating in the garage after he asked him to go start the tractor. He started the tractor first so I guess he felt he had some free time. I don't know that I will be able to look at this guy the same again.

[SKP82]

verypunny - I am so, so sorry for what you're going through. It is not your fault.

[zoomzoom]

Jan 29, 2015 10:56:26 GMT -5 SKP82 said:

I am seeing more and more anti-vax stuff posted (particularly in my local mom FB group) and it is making me rage.

This week, someone posted that she needed to know how to get an exemption for her 4 year old to attend VPK because she didn't want him to get the rest of his vaccinations. So she received advice on how to lie to the health department that her beliefs have changed. She updated today that she easily got the exemption form.

This shit is making me sick.

RAGE.  God damn.  Measles are no joke.

Very sorry for your loss verypunny.

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Jan 29, 2015 10:56:50 GMT -5 deanlicker78 said:

Our maintenance manager caught one of his employees masturbating in the garage after he asked him to go start the tractor. He started the tractor first so I guess he felt he had some free time. I don't know that I will be able to look at this guy the same again.

UM. Why would you have to look at him again? He was fired right?

[game blouses]

The other day both boys had fevers and I convinced myself that they have measles. Last night they were both coughing and I convinced myself that they both have pertussis. I need to stop reading the news.

[SKP82]

Jan 29, 2015 10:58:45 GMT -5 @lazerus24 said:

Jan 29, 2015 10:56:50 GMT -5 deanlicker78 said:

Our maintenance manager caught one of his employees masturbating in the garage after he asked him to go start the tractor. He started the tractor first so I guess he felt he had some free time. I don't know that I will be able to look at this guy the same again.

UM. Why would you have to look at him again? He was fired right?

My thoughts exactly.

[Deleted]

I bought 2 sessions at the tanning bed to use before our cruise.

I am a naturally tan person but my legs need to be darker before I will put on a suit and walk around a thousand other people.

[cleo29]

Jan 29, 2015 10:57:52 GMT -5 TR said:

Jan 29, 2015 10:54:32 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Something I have started to notice at my gym is people who are doing a circuit will do their planks or pushups right in the middle of the floor or walkway. Last night, it was right outside the door the cycle room. I don't get it because there are other areas near the other machines they are using that would be safer and less obtrusive.

But then how would everyone see how awesome they are?

I also don't get wearing full makeup and false eyelashes while working out. The thought of it makes my skin itch.

[deanlicker78]

Jan 29, 2015 10:58:45 GMT -5 @lazerus24 said:

Jan 29, 2015 10:56:50 GMT -5 deanlicker78 said:

Our maintenance manager caught one of his employees masturbating in the garage after he asked him to go start the tractor. He started the tractor first so I guess he felt he had some free time. I don't know that I will be able to look at this guy the same again.

UM. Why would you have to look at him again? He was fired right?

Nope. He is an elderly man who is retired and only works here part time. I guess the MM and our boss decided to keep him, that it was a serious lapse in judgement and that it would never happen again.

[wambam]

Jan 29, 2015 11:00:49 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Jan 29, 2015 10:57:52 GMT -5 TR said:

But then how would everyone see how awesome they are?

I also don't get wearing full makeup and false eyelashes while working out. The thought of it makes my skin itch.

The comp I was at last weekend – a whole gaggle of girls was in full makeup and curled hair. FOR A WORKOUT COMPETITION.

[Deleted]

I would have a backyard DIY wedding if it meant I didn't have to wait any longer than necessary to get married.



All the secret pinterest board stuff is fun, but I just really don't care as much about the actual day as I do about what comes after. And spending all that money just feels like a giant waste when I'm not much of a party person as it is.

[BaliHai]

Jan 29, 2015 11:04:19 GMT -5 @fucksticklegit said:

I would have a backyard DIY wedding if it meant I didn't have to wait any longer than necessary to get married.

All the secret pinterest board stuff is fun, but I just really don't care as much about the actual day as I do about what comes after. And spending all that money just feels like a giant waste when I'm not much of a party person as it is.

Do it!

[cuddlyevil]

Jan 29, 2015 11:04:05 GMT -5 wambam said:

Jan 29, 2015 11:00:49 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

I also don't get wearing full makeup and false eyelashes while working out. The thought of it makes my skin itch.

The comp I was at last weekend – a whole gaggle of girls was in full makeup and curled hair. FOR A WORKOUT COMPETITION.

It bothered me SO much. The only thing remotely left standing by 11 am was their lipstick. And then the dude using his forward facing camera to fix his hipster hairdo--DUDE, you're going to be in the next heat maybe wait until the comp is over.

[escrow]

My feelings are so hurt I'm in tears and it sucks, I haven't felt this way in years. I had a phone interview last week that I thought went well, it ran 15 minutes over and at the end they asked if I'd be willing to come in for another interview. So I'm waiting and hear nothing. I emailed the recruiter asking if he had any info. He called be and said "it....didn't go well" all jerkishly. Um, what? Why did they lead me to believe they wanted me to come for another interview if it was so awful? I don't care about the job, I'm happy where I am, but I just feel like shit. Why do people lie about this stuff. Just tell me my skills aren't a good fit, that's fine. Ugh.

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Jan 29, 2015 11:03:29 GMT -5 deanlicker78 said:

Jan 29, 2015 10:58:45 GMT -5 @lazerus24 said:

UM. Why would you have to look at him again? He was fired right?

Nope. He is an elderly man who is retired and only works here part time. I guess the MM and our boss decided to keep him, that it was a serious lapse in judgement and that it would never happen again.

Uh, please tell me you don't work at a school. 


It is unacceptable everywhere, but if you are at a school???

[cuddlyevil]

Jan 29, 2015 11:04:19 GMT -5 @fucksticklegit said:

I would have a backyard DIY wedding if it meant I didn't have to wait any longer than necessary to get married.



All the secret pinterest board stuff is fun, but I just really don't care as much about the actual day as I do about what comes after. And spending all that money just feels like a giant waste when I'm not much of a party person as it is.

I'M STILL INVITED, RIGHT???













_Please?

[Deleted]

Its not like he's even proposed you guys. haha





But we've discussed some things...