Do you ever just want to not say thank you to DH for doing something basic? No, just me.
Every week, without fail, DH complains that it's trash day. It takes about 15 minutes to do and a lot of time I end up doing all of it, yet he still complains.
90% of the time, DH leaves a cat-getting-sick-result-on-the-carpet for me to clean up. He only cleans them up if I'm out of town or in bed for the night. We got the cats after we got married - they're "ours" not "mine". Luckily, I don't have an interest in having kids.
The cat thing would make me enraged, and it's not one of those things, you can just leave until he does it, because, ew. Though, apparently, he feels he can leave it for you.
Every now and again, we have a big talk about it. Generally, I'm okay with doing stuff, but every now and again, I go off, especially if I asked him to do something small. Now, this make make me a witch, but if I'm doing 90% of the work, if I'm asking DH for help, it means I really need it, or hell, I just don't feel like it. I want/expect it to be done with little conversation about it, other than questions pertaining to completing said request.
Thank goodness I upped my pre-tax 401k contributions instead of doing all Roth 401k this year. We will be able to deduct our rental losses by the very skin of our teeth as a result. I am doing a happy dance!
I do not like how home ownership makes me feel like an idiot. Our lights in our front entry way randomly went out. I don't even know what to google to look for a solution. I'm guessing it's a loose connection somewhere? I feel like I need an adult.
Post by Emerald1486 on Feb 1, 2015 20:53:10 GMT -5
I got to have a brother/sister day with my brother yesterday. Tattoo quotes, renting a movie, and ordering chinese for dinner. We lead such exciting lives.
Tonight DS came up to me and told me he wanted to go to sleep right at his bedtime. He is 3 1/2. Can this be a thing now?