Sup Saturday.

[cuddlyevil]

Coffee is my friend.

[doriswe]

I'm sipping my coffee in bed! I love slow moving mornings!

I need to get moving, though.

[cuddlyevil]

I'm enjoying the quiet. It's nice.

[doglove]

I am going back to being a brunette today. Hooray!

[tiramisu]

I'm lounging in bed with the cats. They're the best.



ETA: Cats!  But they're really right-side up in person. 

[cuddlyevil]

Hee hee...upside-down kitties!

[sweetchix]

My cousin is just finishing up tutoring DD2. I'm realizing now that I should have napped

[starrieskies]

I'm still in bed. I should get up, but my bed is warm and cozy... I had one car load of people home from the bar last night by 10:30 and had to go back for one more. She, however, didn't want to leave. So we ended up staying until the bar closed.

[motzie]

I got < 3 hours sleep last night. This baby is crazy. She's lucky she's so sweet. She wakes up around 3am to eat and most nights will only go back to sleep next to me. The minute I try to put her in her bed she's wide awake.

In short, almost time for more coffee.

H is playing lacrosse all afternoon and was feeling guilty so he took A1 to the grocery store then cleaned the entire kitchen and folded a bunch of laundry. I got a ton done today so the apartment is looking nice.

We got tons of snacks for a football party tomorrow. Just us, and lots of cheese, and taco dip.

[tiramisu]

I had a moment yesterday evening that was a total flashback to trust issues with stbxh. Unfortunately I took it out on the Canadian, who I had no business bothering anyway because we're not dating. I know I offended him, I apologized, and now I'm using all that to focus on how to help heal myself. And hoping that it didn't completely kill the potential to try again in the future once we're both in healthier places. But mostly focusing on healing myself.

[cuddlyevil]

I'm sure it will be okay tiramisu. {{{HUG }}}

[tiramisu]

Jan 31, 2015 17:57:21 GMT -5 cuddlyevil said:

I'm sure it will be okay tiramisu. {{{HUG }}}

Thank you

I'm reminding myself that if someone is the "right person" or *a* right person, then there will be a "right time."

[kaneen]

Jan 31, 2015 17:27:39 GMT -5 tiramisu said:

I had a moment yesterday evening that was a total flashback to trust issues with stbxh. Unfortunately I took it out on the Canadian, who I had no business bothering anyway because we're not dating. I know I offended him, I apologized, and now I'm using all that to focus on how to help heal myself. And hoping that it didn't completely kill the potential to try again in the future once we're both in healthier places. But mostly focusing on healing myself.

We've all been there.  Go easy on yourself.

[tiramisu]

Jan 31, 2015 18:25:27 GMT -5 kaneen said:

Jan 31, 2015 17:27:39 GMT -5 tiramisu said:

I had a moment yesterday evening that was a total flashback to trust issues with stbxh. Unfortunately I took it out on the Canadian, who I had no business bothering anyway because we're not dating. I know I offended him, I apologized, and now I'm using all that to focus on how to help heal myself. And hoping that it didn't completely kill the potential to try again in the future once we're both in healthier places. But mostly focusing on healing myself.

We've all been there.  Go easy on yourself.

Thanks.  I cried a little about it this morning and now I'm focusing on other things.  Including books that can help and crochet projects because I need to make something other than a scarf, damnit.

[kaneen]

I wasn't liking that you cried but that you are focusing on other stuff.

[tiramisu]

Thanks, I figured

[cuddlyevil]

Jan 31, 2015 18:09:35 GMT -5 tiramisu said:

Thank you

I'm reminding myself that if someone is the "right person" or *a* right person, then there will be a "right time."

I have been doing this too.

[doglove]

It's okay to cry. Crying = healing.

[tiramisu]

Jan 31, 2015 19:37:23 GMT -5 doglove said:

It's okay to cry. Crying = healing.

I'm glad to "hear" you say this. How are you doing? How are you feeling?

[doglove]

Jan 31, 2015 19:58:14 GMT -5 tiramisu said:

Jan 31, 2015 19:37:23 GMT -5 doglove said:

It's okay to cry. Crying = healing.

I'm glad to "hear" you say this. How are you doing? How are you feeling?

I have been doing a lot of that type of "healing" this week. Even though it feels more like struggling to me!

[tiramisu]

Jan 31, 2015 19:59:33 GMT -5 doglove said:

Jan 31, 2015 19:58:14 GMT -5 tiramisu said:

I'm glad to "hear" you say this. How are you doing? How are you feeling?

I have been doing a lot of that type of "healing" this week. Even though it feels more like struggling to me!

And you still keep going. I'm sorry you've been having a rough week. Even the struggles help heal us in the end, huh? Thank you for reaching out to me when you're going through all of that still. I'm really impressed by you and how in touch with your feelings you are.

[doglove]

Jan 31, 2015 20:22:24 GMT -5 tiramisu said:

Jan 31, 2015 19:59:33 GMT -5 doglove said:

I have been doing a lot of that type of "healing" this week. Even though it feels more like struggling to me!

And you still keep going. I'm sorry you've been having a rough week. Even the struggles help heal us in the end, huh? Thank you for reaching out to me when you're going through all of that still. I'm really impressed by you and how in touch with your feelings you are.

I think so, at least that's what I try to cling to. I am sure I am making my share of mistakes!

[tiramisu]

Jan 31, 2015 20:33:13 GMT -5 doglove said:

Jan 31, 2015 20:22:24 GMT -5 tiramisu said:

And you still keep going. I'm sorry you've been having a rough week. Even the struggles help heal us in the end, huh? Thank you for reaching out to me when you're going through all of that still. I'm really impressed by you and how in touch with your feelings you are.

I think so, at least that's what I try to cling to. I am sure I am making my share of mistakes!

Aren't we all? You're doing your best. Love you lady!

[doglove]

Jan 31, 2015 20:42:36 GMT -5 tiramisu said:

Jan 31, 2015 20:33:13 GMT -5 doglove said:

I think so, at least that's what I try to cling to. I am sure I am making my share of mistakes!

Aren't we all? You're doing your best. Love you lady!

Love you too ❤️

[partiallysunny]

That's right tiramisu. I'm glad you're feeling better about the situation.

Edit: I meant to say that's rough! Not right. Grrr.

[partiallysunny]

Birthday party is over and I'm finally home. Watching a rented movie and eating a late dinner.

[tiramisu]

Jan 31, 2015 20:51:30 GMT -5 partiallysunny said:

That's right tiramisu. I'm glad you're feeling better about the situation.

Thanks. I'm feeling a little better, but still licking my wounds. I realized the real work is in trusting myself, not others. The trusting others will come from that I think.

[gault]

Both of you are doing a great job of taking care of yourselves. tiramisu doglove. Hugs

[cuddlyevil]

Are you feeling better gault?

[cuddlyevil]

I'm drinking hot chocolate while snuggled up in DS2's fuzzy blanket.