Post by StrawberryBlondie on Feb 2, 2015 14:50:21 GMT -5
I'm wondering if anyone has dealt with this type of thing. I have a conference at work next week. Not all day, but by the time I leave my office till the time I get home it'll be about 7 hours.
I normally pump twice during the workday - my second time would be squarely in the middle of the conference. I can technically go 7 hours without pumping but it'll hurt.
So wwyd? Pump right before I leave and be uncomfortable? Request a place to pump during the conference? As far as I know I'm the only nursing mom at this thing so there's no one I can coordinate with or take cues from. There will be breaks but nothing more than 10-15 minutes.
Most hotels are usually pretty good about finding you a place to pump in private. If they don't have anything you could pump in your car during a break or lunch.
Request a place you can pump. I had a conference early in my pumping stint with shorti - I emailed the organizer beforehand and asked what their setup was. The first person I got wasn't sure of the answer, but directed me to somebody else who asked what I'd need - I told her a room with a lock, a chair and a power outlet. They hooked me up with a large storage closet that met my needs. done and done. I did need to bring my cooler bag though - no fridge obviously.
And I had to duck out of one of the round table discussions early so I could actually go use said storage closet.
Post by Velar Fricative on Feb 2, 2015 14:55:51 GMT -5
I would pump before leaving for the conference and pump at least once more during one of those short breaks, twice if they offer two breaks - short pumping sessions will be better than nothing, IMO. And I would ask if there's an empty room you could use.
I wouldn't go 7 hrs w/o pumping and be in pain. If it's at a hotel you can likely ask them for a place to pump and get accommodated. I would do that ahead of time then quietly slip out and pump, or pump during the lunch break, just grab a quick bite and then go pump if you don't need to mingle during lunch.
I would (and have) ask the organizer. The event co-ordiantor at the venue should have an easy answer. You may be the only nursing mom at this particular event, but the venue sees this often enough.
Post by StrawberryBlondie on Feb 2, 2015 15:10:15 GMT -5
The organizer is a (male) VP of the company. With that in mind, would you think my boss (female - who will be there too) or the vp's admin would be the better contact?
If the organizer has an admin it makes sense to me to ask them.
It's hard, but don't hold back mentioning needing a lactation room to men just because they are men. If anything, I've gotten better accommodations from the male leadership than female.
I would just like to rabble rouse for half a second in a slightly leany-iny way and say that I absolutely 100% think you should contact somebody at the venue or the conference organizers and just ask about this as if it's a perfectly normal and typical need. Because it is.
If need be you can pump with a battery pack in a bathroom stall or your car - I've done it while waiting for MH to get out of surgery and while doing field work plenty of time. But a venue like this they shouldn't have the slightest problem accommodating you.
eta: n/m I'm too slow and you're already on it! I'd go with the admin, but just because that person is the most likely to know the answer. Not because the organizer is a dude.
I went to a national conference, hauled my pump around with me with pride, and used a family room in the conference center to pump twice a day. It had a separate mother baby section from the toilet area so I was fine with that.
Post by granthamite on Feb 2, 2015 15:42:43 GMT -5
Sounds like you've gotten lots of good advice, just wanted to lend another voice in support of working moms who have to navigate this stuff. I wish lactation rooms were more the norm than the exception in corporate venues (offices, hotels, airports, etc.). My first ask is usually a meeting planner (either corporate or at the venue). If that doesn't pan out, I bring my battery pack and realize it may come down to a bathroom stall. Not ideal, but I've done it.
Post by StrawberryBlondie on Feb 2, 2015 15:58:15 GMT -5
My company is actually amazing on-site for pumping (they provide hospital grade pumps for use for free). The thing that gave me pause is that the conference itself is only 4 1/2 hours. But traffic and parking are such a bitch I have to add on at least 2 for travel.
I only mentioned the VP is a guy because i think it makes it more likely he hasn't considered this.
Post by sunshine608 on Feb 2, 2015 16:03:36 GMT -5
At the last conference at a University/Office building, I asked and they has an office set-up and the lady has even made curtains for the room. I've used an office and as a last resort just pump in my car during breaks or get their early/as I'm leaving.
My company is actually amazing on-site for pumping (they provide hospital grade pumps for use for free). The thing that gave me pause is that the conference itself is only 4 1/2 hours. But traffic and parking are such a bitch I have to add on at least 2 for travel.
I only mentioned the VP is a guy because i think it makes it more likely he hasn't considered this.
Which is why you need to mention, it's a reality that any conference may well have a lactating Mom needing accommodation and he needs to have that in mind.
I say nicely ask and maybe next conference he'll think about it.
Post by JayhawkGirl on Feb 2, 2015 17:30:48 GMT -5
I happened to be one of the organizers of an all day convention center conference when I was pumping. The convention center was able to direct me to a space and Lo and behold, one of our attendees arrived with the medela bag too.
From then on, we made a privacy sign part of the annual signage kit.
Most hotels are usually pretty good about finding you a place to pump in private. If they don't have anything you could pump in your car during a break or lunch.
Yes. I requested a space to pump when I was at a hotel during a conference. I was local, so I wasn't staying at the hotel, but they provided me with a guest room. I had ice packs to keep my milk stored at a cool temp.
When I traveled for a conference, I purchased a small fridge and kept it in my hotel room while I was in seminars.