Hump Day Poll: 50 Shades edition

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In honor of Valentine's Day and the 50 Shades of Grey movie being "released" this week, here is a poll about BDSM.  So, are you into sadism & masochism in the bedroom?

Options:

Bring on the whips and chains! I love it!

I'm a dominatrix and my H is my sub.

I enjoy being blindfolded/lightly tied up once in a while.

I tried some S&M and it's not for me.

I never tried this, but I'm interested.

I never tried it and I'm not interested.

SS

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I chose "I tried it and it's not for me". An ex once put his hand around my neck to choke me, and I didn't like it at all. The idea of pain during foreplay and sex doesn't appeal to me. I understand how power play, submission, bondage etc can be a turn-on in the right context, but I'm not really into it.

[MrsMB]

I would try it. I've done some "light" things with DH....but he wasn't all that into it.

[katespade]

We don't go beyond ties and blindfolds, but we bought a headboard with slats in it for a reason.

[pooh8402]

Never tried it, not interested. The most I can handle is DH holding my hands above my head.

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We've done blindfolds and either hold the other's hands down or tied each other to the bed but nothing besides that. I do have a feather stick but that's just fun to tickle him with at random moments, not the bedroom.

[awick14]

We have never tried any of it, I would be interested in trying but DH isn't. O well.

[bk1]

Feb 11, 2015 14:01:17 GMT -5 awick14 said:

We have never tried any of it, I would be interested in trying but DH isn't. O well.

This.

[HoneySpider]

We've done the "light" stuff and have had fun, don't think I'd enjoy anything real hardcore

[estrellita]

I tried handcuffs once a loooong time ago, but that wasn't with H, haha. I'm fine with some lighter stuff but I definitely don't think I'd be into the really hardcore stuff.

[travelbug]

We haven't really experimented yet. But we are both up for it.

[wanderingenough]

We'll pull out a scarf every once in a while to use as a blindfold or to lightly tie the other's hands. And by we, I mean me. I'm always the one who pulls it out but H never complains.

[katiek]

H is really not into the idea, so we've never tried it. I'd be up for it, though.

[krystee]

DH staunchly refuses (said he would feel like a rapist), so we haven't done it.

[Queen Mamadala]

I'm not a "sub" in the classic sense. I'm more of a switch. I like being Top and bottom. DH is more vanilla, slowly warming up to kink. A good chunk of previous partners were/are Doms or kinksters.