hugs mrssandro. But I just have to tell you that your baby is so incredibly adorable! I am always glad when I see your posts because I can see your adorable siggy pic!
checking in here with another crappy day. (I am a preschool speech therapist) Today I had a little girl with me, and we went into a classroom to pick up another child. I let the door shut behind us (one of those pressurized door closers so they pull shut behind you), and I didn't realize she had stuck her hand in the hinge side of the door frame, and her fingers got stuck in there. She was ultimately fine, they weren't broken or bleeding, just bruised, but she was crying hysterically for a half hour. It obviously hurt a lot and I think scared her even more, and I felt SO bad. They always stick their hands in there almost automatically but I always am looking out for it and catch them in time. This time I didn't look because I was distracted by the other kid I was picking up, who was screaming and running all over the classroom. Ugh, I just feel like a huge failure today!
Post by spankswife on Feb 26, 2015 20:03:49 GMT -5
I had a dr appt this morn. BP was great (I was nervous it would be high). She did an impromptu US bc of the intense crotch pain, just to make sure. He is already 5 lbs 7 oz, measuring 3.5 weeks ahead! I still have 9 weeks to go!! But he was really cute with chubby cheeks and hair
Then she asked if I wanted my tubes tied during my c section. I'm not planning in more kids, but it totally threw me off. I can barley make a decision, let alone a permanent one!! Yikes!
mac08 That sounds traumatizing! I'm so sorry that happened.
spankswife Yay for cute chubby baby I would be so torn about the tubes tied question... even if I knew I was done! What does your H think?
I will say that if you want it done, it makes sense to double up. My mom hated having to go back another time.
I know! So excited!! Althgough I am going to stop buying clothes bc I feel like everything will be off a season - ha ha!
Honestly I have never ever thought about getting my tubes tied. There's just too many what ifs in life for me. My original plan was maybe a mirena (or equivalent) for 5 years, then DH get snipped. Logically I think I am done, and I know this would be easier, but that thought has never crossed my mind, so it totally threw me for a loop!
spankswife- That's a really hard decision so I completely understand why you are thrown off, especially if it's something you haven't thought about before. I have always said that if I was having a c/s for my "last" kid then I would have my tubes tied; otherwise, DH is getting snipped. From the beginning I was the one that only wanted two kids (DH originally was open to 3 since he comes from a family of 3). After going through our losses and journey to get C I am totally open to a third kid and can't say that I would be completely 100% willing to shut that door after kid #2, even though I'm pretty positive that we are done once we have a 2nd kid (obviously God willing, who knows what our future holds). But before 2013 I would have confidently said that I would 100% have my tubes tied after kid #2...just goes to show how fast life and opinions/feelings/desires can change. Now, if it were kid #3...yeah, my answer would be a lot different!