The person was just surprised that there was a need. And yes, I did do a casserole but it's always a hit. No cheese involved! Rhodes rolls and salad. Pretty simple. They were very appreciative and I felt like I helped.
Do none of these people have functioning partners? Yes, I see no difference between a meal train for a first kid or a third, but i always wonder -- where the hell is the other adult in this situation (assuming one is around)?
My husband was working full time and going to school full time when our first was born so he wasn't around much and having food brought over was wonderful. Bring food to any family in need is a nice thing to do. I just had surgery Wednesday and my mother in law had dinner ready when we got home and the leftovers lasted until yesterday.