S/O Toys

[carylee07]

So hallows posted about sex stores which happens to be relevant to me right now.

Obvi you guys don't know me well but maybe that makes this question easier bc I don't know if I have a friend IRL I could ask this to.

Anyhoo, H and i were talking about getting toys to spice up our love life. We got something for me which is working out great, but I had said we should get something fun for him. He said he wanted to see what I would come up with. I reeeeally don't want to google "sex toys for men" bc I'm scared what will pop up!!

Um, any ideas or suggestions? Or is this totally a TMI question?

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A c0ck ring?

[hallows]

It depends on what your H likes/what you're both comfortable with. There are several options, but most of them are pretty scary for most guys, lol. If you want more info, we can take this to PM.

[carylee07]

Yeah Im kind of intrigued by the ring. I guess the main intent of it is for endurance? I was afraid to get it and he'd think- what, I don't last long enough? Or something.

[carylee07]

Aug 10, 2012 18:18:02 GMT -5 hallows said:

It depends on what your H likes/what you're both comfortable with. There are several options, but most of them are pretty scary for most guys, lol. If you want more info, we can take this to PM.

Thanks!!!

[karebear219]

I got H a ring once and he was scared of it. It still sits in it's package in our special drawer.

[emyinpink]

how does he feel about booty play? there are some good guy toys for that, but some guys are really into it, and some aren't at all. also, things like handcuffs, etc., are unisex .

[carylee07]

Aug 10, 2012 19:42:11 GMT -5 @emyinpink said:

how does he feel about booty play? there are some good guy toys for that, but some guys are really into it, and some aren't at all. also, things like handcuffs, etc., are unisex .

Yeah I think I'd need his approval before purchasing any booty play stuff. I would guess no but I guess I could be wrong!

Aug 10, 2012 18:47:25 GMT -5 karebear219 said:

I got H a ring once and he was scared of it. It still sits in it's package in our special drawer.

This made me giggle! Poor H.

[carylee07]

Aug 10, 2012 19:49:48 GMT -5 @jennuinne said:

I feel like most guys would be more into things for you, then for them. All I can think of is blindfold, ties, etc. and you being the boss.

Exactly- thats why this exercise is way hard for me. We went shopping together and i felt like it was mainly girl focused. But yes we do have the ties and blindfold in our current bag of tricks.

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What about a French tickler sort of thing? I actually just had this explained to me by H today as I had some idea it was like just a feather on a stick He might find that kind of fun since it would come across less as "endurance" questions. If you don't know, it's a little like a cock ring with a nub for clitoral stimulation. And my understanding of cock rings is that while they can be used for helping with endurance, a lot of guys say that it makes the orgasm part more intense.