Post by pegasuskat on Mar 29, 2015 15:41:14 GMT -5
I'm sorry you were hurt here. I hope you do keep your name active in case you change your mind a little further down the road. I really hope you check in and let us know how your doing. Still praying for you.
Post by sapphireblue on Mar 29, 2015 16:15:59 GMT -5
I am sorry to see this--I do hope you keep your account active and check in once in a while.
You have gotten a lot of support and I think the people that were not sure if you were legit or not were a small percentage. And really, any doubts they had were due to previous experiences on the board, NOT to you.
I wish you all the best and I hope things get easier for you as time goes on.
I hope you find peace. Know that many people have stepped away for a while and found their way back here - and that's totally OK.
I also just wanted to say that if you can't find the support you need for young widows/widowers anywhere else online, you might consider, when you feel strong enough, starting your own. Proboards might even be a good place to do it. FFIW, My grandfather started a toll-free grief line after my grandmother died in 1983 that he maintained until his death in 1999. I know it brought him enormous comfort. Somehow, it helped him work through his own grief and built him up, because he was helping others. Hugs.
Praying for peace and healing for you & your family. I hope that you'll feel comfortable posting here again, bug understand why you feel the need to step back.
I'm sorry you had more pain added to your grief by some thoughtless posters. They were only a tiny fraction here, but that doesn't make any difference. I wish you peace and healing for you heart.