The insistence on not letting something go, followed by the moral policing, with the side of "well if you aren't going to change then I'm just going to be fouler than all of you."
Although, to be fair, cas hasn't hit that last part... yet.
Again, what would make you feel better? Do you want Sou, Emmy, and everyone else to shower you with apologies for making jokes? It happens to nearly everyone on the board.
Either you roll with the punches or GBCN GBCN.
Here - let me go ahead and apologize on behalf of Sou and all black folks on the board. We're so terribly sorry for your pain.
See. Black folks have guilt too.
How's that? All better now?
But on the realz, I'm being unlike myself and quite condescending because I find your constant need to bemoan the fact that some people don't agree with what you did annoying as all dayum get out.
I'm not asking for anything or bemoaning that people don't agree with me. I'm objecting to the mean-spirited behavior that continues almost a week later. I don't have to go anywhere - if you choose to be condescending and mean, that's your problem. I'm not taking on your personal failings.
I'm willing to bet that if you had responded differently in the colossal thread a week ago and bounced back with regular posts about anything else this would have all been history by now. I've been here long enough to know that most of the posters here move on (they may never forget certain things but for the most part they don't bring it up over and over). Based on what others have said, you've been here long enough to know this too.
I'm not asking for anything or bemoaning that people don't agree with me. I'm objecting to the mean-spirited behavior that continues almost a week later. I don't have to go anywhere - if you choose to be condescending and mean, that's your problem. I'm not taking on your personal failings.
I'm willing to bet that if you had responded differently in the colossal thread a week ago and bounced back with regular posts about anything else this would have all been history by now. I've been here long enough to know that most of the posters here move on (they may never forget certain things but for the most part they don't bring it up over and over). Based on what others have said, you've been here long enough to know this too.
You need to move on casgmn....like whoa.
as I already said, I had moved on. I havent posted in almost a week. It is others who have kept this going.
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Aug 13, 2012 20:33:22 GMT -5
So, over the weekend, the drunken hipster found my profile on an online dating site, told me I was pretty, and asked for my number. Apparently he doesn't even remember meeting me, peeing on me, asking me for money, and then trying to get me to lie to his dad.
This is the appropriate place for this story, yes?
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
So, over the weekend, the drunken hipster found my profile on an online dating site, told me I was pretty, and asked for my number. Apparently he doesn't even remember meeting me, peeing on me, asking me for money, and then trying to get me to lie to his dad.
This is the appropriate place for this story, yes?
So, over the weekend, the drunken hipster found my profile on an online dating site, told me I was pretty, and asked for my number. Apparently he doesn't even remember meeting me, peeing on me, asking me for money, and then trying to get me to lie to his dad.
This is the appropriate place for this story, yes?
Use Wordpress and not Blogger please. Or just go with Tumblr. Thanks in advance!
Fuckyeahwierdomagnate.tumblr.com
You would have to come up with some sweet .gifs first tho.
I'm willing to bet that if you had responded differently in the colossal thread a week ago and bounced back with regular posts about anything else this would have all been history by now. I've been here long enough to know that most of the posters here move on (they may never forget certain things but for the most part they don't bring it up over and over). Based on what others have said, you've been here long enough to know this too.
You need to move on casgmn....like whoa.
as I already said, I had moved on. I havent posted in almost a week. It is others who have kept this going.
I think you misunderstood me. When I say moving on in this context, I mean not posting about "the" topic that created the issue or anything related to it. It means making a concerted effort to get beyond it by posting about anything else instead. I think if you had stuck around and did this, the other posters would have moved on as well. Like I said, most posters here do move past others' less-than-stellar moments and can interact without bringing up the past. BUT you have to give them a chance to do that.