Today was 4 years since my Mom died.

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Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 20:27:03 GMT -5 via mobile mofongo likes this

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Post by karmasabiotch on Apr 1, 2015 20:27:03 GMT -5

I lit a memorial candle for her which is a Jewish tradition even though my Mom never did that kind of thing, but I like the tradition of it. It burns 24 hours.

My sister and my H don't seem to understand how I'm feeling, My secretary brought me some candy and a cute ceramic bunny. I thought that was so sweet of her.

I wish my Mom could have known J better not only because he's amazing but he suffers the same dx I had as a child and her words of wisdom would be great.

Sorry for my Debbie Downer post but I would welcome poor poodles or happy gif's. I really just needed to get this out.

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rosiebear Senior Member Posts: 8,302 Likes: 18,454	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 20:28:47 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by rosiebear on Apr 1, 2015 20:28:47 GMT -5 I'm sorry. I love the candle tradition.
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prettyinpink Full Member Posts: 1,772 Likes: 551	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 20:29:18 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by prettyinpink on Apr 1, 2015 20:29:18 GMT -5 Hugs.
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lilac05 Elder Posts: 18,807 Likes: 16,945	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 20:29:31 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lilac05 on Apr 1, 2015 20:29:31 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. That was very kind of your secretary! The world needs more thoughtful people.
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Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 20:31:03 GMT -5 via mobile

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Post by revolution on Apr 1, 2015 20:31:03 GMT -5

You poor poodle.

It can be a really lonely feeling and that is so hard. My sibling nags and I all remember our dad in different ways. Have a good cry or good laugh or whatever you need to do to make it through the red of the day.

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tripleshot Senior Member Posts: 9,205 Likes: 7,726	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 20:49:42 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by tripleshot on Apr 1, 2015 20:49:42 GMT -5 I'm sorry, Karma. Hugs.
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2boys2danes Full Member I'm can't figure out how do a profile pic, but trust me, my boys and danes are cute! Posts: 2,578 Likes: 686	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 20:56:27 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by 2boys2danes on Apr 1, 2015 20:56:27 GMT -5 Big giant hugs to you Karma… sorry this has been a tough day for you!
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nikki25 Full Member Posts: 4,352 Likes: 3,309	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 20:59:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by nikki25 on Apr 1, 2015 20:59:33 GMT -5 (((hugs))) I am so sorry. I love the candle tradition.
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underwaterrhymes Elder Rainbow Jihadist in the Final Stages of Moral Decay Posts: 36,959 Likes: 72,862	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 21:00:30 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by underwaterrhymes on Apr 1, 2015 21:00:30 GMT -5 Just sending hugs, karma.
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justemily Full Member Posts: 1,998 Likes: 1,208	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 21:01:33 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by justemily on Apr 1, 2015 21:01:33 GMT -5 hugs
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lime Senior Member Posts: 8,197 Likes: 4,891	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 21:08:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lime on Apr 1, 2015 21:08:33 GMT -5 ((karma)) I like the candle tradition.
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blanca Junior Member Posts: 999 Likes: 356	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 21:10:21 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by blanca on Apr 1, 2015 21:10:21 GMT -5 Hugs
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Eagles Elder Posts: 10,784 Likes: 22,756	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 21:14:59 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Eagles on Apr 1, 2015 21:14:59 GMT -5 Big hugs to you.
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Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 21:19:42 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App stellas likes this

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Post by snipsnsnails on Apr 1, 2015 21:19:42 GMT -5

(((Hugs)))

I've been reading a lot of poetry recently. This is a portion from a reading by a priest (Death is Nothing At All) given a hundred years ago and I think it's still beautiful. I think you remembering her and loving her is beautiful.

"Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near,
just round the corner.

All is well.
Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before..."

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JayhawkGirl Senior Member Posts: 5,140 Likes: 3,192	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 1, 2015 23:52:38 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by JayhawkGirl on Apr 1, 2015 23:52:38 GMT -5 Big hugs to you.
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meganew Elder Posts: 11,152 Likes: 26,783	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 2, 2015 0:06:06 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by meganew on Apr 2, 2015 0:06:06 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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franklin Full Member Posts: 3,215 Likes: 4,755	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 2, 2015 0:37:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by franklin on Apr 2, 2015 0:37:41 GMT -5 I'm so sorry, I can't imagine dealing with a loss like that. I hope this isn't out of line, but iss there something special you and your mom had/did that you can do with DS?
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Linie Full Member Posts: 1,878 Likes: 1,270	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 2, 2015 3:15:57 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Linie on Apr 2, 2015 3:15:57 GMT -5 Hugs to you from an internet stranger who understands your feeling well. When I buy flowers for my place, I always think of my mother (she passed 30 years ago).
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Post by miniroller on Apr 2, 2015 3:30:40 GMT -5

Big hugs, karma. That really sucks that your sister isn't really a source of understanding comfort. (Your h too, but I'd expect more from my sis) I'm so sorry that you sort've have to deal independently

But pleased you have a sweet secretary!

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ginger Elder Posts: 11,425 Likes: 10,232	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 2, 2015 5:59:12 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ginger on Apr 2, 2015 5:59:12 GMT -5 ((Hugs))
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venice2007 Elder Posts: 12,157 Likes: 12,909	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 2, 2015 6:10:55 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by venice2007 on Apr 2, 2015 6:10:55 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Huge hugs!
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Booze Raccoon Senior Member Posts: 6,155 Likes: 4,366	Today was 4 years since my Mom died. Apr 2, 2015 6:53:45 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Booze Raccoon on Apr 2, 2015 6:53:45 GMT -5 I'm sorry. Sending you internet hugs.
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Post by karmasabiotch on Apr 1, 2015 20:27:03 GMT -5

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