That reminds me of my wedding day. My dress was a little too big in the bodice, but they couldn't take it in more because it would mess with the beadwork. So they sewed in two sets of cups and had me put in these silicone inserts to push my boobs up. It worked and looked really good, except somehow the silicone cutlets kept riding up and eventually poked out the top of the dress LOL! But I didn't really care. I don't get embarrassed easily.
My confession is that I justified buying a Wii-U as a birthday gift for H, but really I just wanted it. Since I used giftcards, I don't feel guilty.
We haven't had sex in 9+ weeks and I don't really miss it anymore. I think most of it is because it's so much nicer not fighting about our different desire/frequency and being frustrated when I initiate and get rejected. Now, no initiating= no chance of rejection or fighting. Hoping this changes in the near future but for now I'm okay with how things are. Sadly, DH is way too okay with it as well.
I'm so glad my other SIL sent a care package to my Dad in the hospital. She's so thoughtful and came up with all kinds of things he would need in the room with him....even included favorite foods, a reading light, etc. It was really sweet. She did it for HIM and not for herself. If my other AW SIL had done it...it would have been on Facebook, her blog, etc...with detailed information as to why each object was included. Ugh.
I'd rather someone do something for him and just HIM....rather than be attention seeking.
I'm so glad my other SIL sent a care package to my Dad in the hospital. She's so thoughtful and came up with all kinds of things he would need in the room with him....even included favorite foods, a reading light, etc. It was really sweet. She did it for HIM and not for herself. If my other AW SIL had done it...it would have been on Facebook, her blog, etc...with detailed information as to why each object was included. Ugh.
I'd rather someone do something for him and just HIM....rather than be attention seeking.
Can you point out to me the confession part of this? Lol.
I confess I'm being petty. Does that work for everyone? LOL HoneySpider
My husband got me into an online game he loves because he wanted to video game with me. Confession part, I thought I'd hate it, but it's not to bad lol
My husband got me into an online game he loves because he wanted to video game with me. Confession part, I thought I'd hate it, but it's not to bad lol
What game is it? I play Guild Wars 2 with my H. He loves computer games, so it's nice to play together once in a while.
I am being an immature 7th grader and am not talking to my sister because she hurt my feelings BIG TIME. I told her my feelings are hurt but refuse to engage in any other communications she attempts. Yes I am mature.
Thanks ladies. Honestly, it's a good thing. For the first time in almost 4 years we aren't fighting about sex. It's a nice break from our norm. We'll get back to pre C times and I know that DH's lack of desire ha nothing to do with me and all to do with him but the constant rejection gets old after awhile. I'm happy that I'm ok with where we are without having a sex life.
luv2rn4fun I've had to lower my expectations in all areas of life since having M. It's a major adjustment (obviously!) and I don't think what you guys are experiencing is that atypical of new parenthood. I'm not trying to diminish your feelings or sound preachy, just trying to say it's okay to accept things as they are in this moment and not be so hard on yourselves. Hugs, friend!
luv2rn4fun I've had to lower my expectations in all areas of life since having M. It's a major adjustment (obviously!) and I don't think what you guys are experiencing is that atypical of new parenthood. I'm not trying to diminish your feelings or sound preachy, just trying to say it's okay to accept things as they are in this moment and not be so hard on yourselves. Hugs, friend!
thanks friend! I know (from friends IRL and here) that everything we are going through is pretty common, especiallythe first 3 months and with a difficult baby. DH was hardest about the "not sleeping in the same room" but now I'm back (we'll see how long that lasts though since being in there really cuts my sleep). We're both okay and I would feel much worse about our sex life if DH was more interested and I still felt this way. But since we both are on the same page it's actually kind of nice.
Post by Skyesthelimit1212 on Apr 8, 2015 9:35:39 GMT -5
I'm not a prude, but I am so not comfortable talking about sex. You know you hear about woman who giggle and gossip about their sex life or a friend's sex life, I'm not one of those people. I don't even talk about it with my bf whom I've known since we were both 6. One of the fb groups I'm part of, one of the women put up a pic of some sex toys and hide it because every time I went over to the page it was just right there. LOL
My husband got me into an online game he loves because he wanted to video game with me. Confession part, I thought I'd hate it, but it's not to bad lol
What game is it? I play Guild Wars 2 with my H. He loves computer games, so it's nice to play together once in a while.
Oh Runescape! I actually played that ten years ago when it was a new game. I'm not hugely into games, especially competitive ones or those that require a huge time commitment, but I do enjoy my Guild Wars.
melsamoony What server are you on? I'm on Borlis Pass. What do you think of the game?
I played since launch and now have over 11,000 AP. I don't play as much now because I lost interest in the living story, but I do plan to get the expansion. These days I mostly do WvW. I also played the original GW and really liked those.
melsamoony What server are you on? I'm on Borlis Pass. What do you think of the game?
I played since launch and now have over 11,000 AP. I don't play as much now because I lost interest in the living story, but I do plan to get the expansion. These days I mostly do WvW. I also played the original GW and really liked those.
Idk what server I am on lol. I like the game but haven't played in like a month. I play it w my H and some of our friends bc we are nerds like that.