I went to a meeting in place of my boss today because she's sick. She called in to tell me who I'm meeting so that I knew who to look for at the coffee shop. She's never met this woman, but (I thought) she must have seen a pic or was told by the woman herself who to look for.
Boss told me to look for a black woman wearing a red top.
I walk into the coffee shop and there's a woman there in a red top, but she's white. I snag a table and wait and wait and wait. Finally, after 15 minutes, white woman in a red top approaches me and she's the woman I'm supposed to meet.
When I got back to work, I called my boss and told her that Client is not black, but white, and what made her tell me that Client was black?
"Oh, when I've been talking to her on the phone for months - and she sounded black! I'm sorry".
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
This happens to my BIL a lot. He's adopted from South Korea, and the ILs gave him a 'white' name, so when an Asian dude turns up people sometimes double take.
so...did she "sound black" in person? I'm just curious what your boss meant by his description. I mean if she had a Jamaican accent I might think she was black...
I had a coworker who is black and she said people were always surprised to find that out based on how she sounded on the phone (she sounded like she was white).
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
If people can look to be a certain race, they can sound to be a certain race. The quality of a voice can be just as physiological as skin color or facial features. It was dumb for her to count on her interpretation though.
She didn't have an accent at all. Well, to be fair, she did say, "a boat" instead of "about". So a little MN twang in there.
I will admit that when I listen to a certain radio station I automatically picture some of the deejays as black men/women based on their voices.
I just don't know that I would own up to the voice/race correlation in a work setting - and certainly not with the certainty that my boss did. It just seemed... not right, I guess, and now that you're all saying that you can sometimes tell, it's making me think that I'm probably being pearl-clutchy for being kind of aghast.
If people can look to be a certain race, they can sound to be a certain race. The quality of a voice can be just as physiological as skin color or facial features. It was dumb for her to count on her interpretation though.
So wait -- when you talk to a black British person, can you tell they're black??
I will have a picture of someone in my head from a voice and am sometimes surprised or validated by appearance, but it isn't strong enough that I'd tell someone else. I feel like gender is really the only thing you can really judge from voice, then age, then perhaps a bit about their heritage, but that has much weaker correlation. (Leaving aside regional accents or diction choices).