Pick a hairstyle for me

[kellbell191]

I need to pick hair for this wedding I'm in. Either down or half up, my hair is shoulder length. I'm too lazy to look and I guess the bride wants to see what we want beforehand to ok it?

This is the wedding where I was told not to cut my hair again. If I'd known she wanted it down I would have just done it anyway

ETA: strapless dress

[LLL]

what do you look like?

[kellbell191]

Aug 13, 2012 11:26:46 GMT -5 LLL said:

what do you look like?

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[kellbell191]

Aug 13, 2012 11:29:30 GMT -5 @astrid said:

Up isn't an option? She's bossy and dumb.

Reference last week's post re. expensive wedding and paying for make up. I feel like if I can't cut my damn hair then that means you want it up. if you want it down I should get to cut my hair. I seriously would have gotten my hair cut about a month ago if I'd had permission, its usually a little shorter than shoulder length and is shoulder length now.

[LLL]

I would do something simple like this and call it good. It'll look nice with a strapless dress:

[pantsparty]

Why not kind of like you have it in the picture, but with curls? Something easy.

[LLL]

I like the makeup too, except that lipstick. it's horrible

[kellbell191]

Aug 13, 2012 11:33:31 GMT -5 LLL said:

I like the makeup too, except that lipstick. it's horrible

LOL which picture? I paid someone a boatload to do mine for the wedding one and still have that lipstick if you want to borrow it : )

ETA: I think I am just going to tell the hair lady to do whatever the F she wants. That's what they're paying her for, right?

[LLL]

Aug 13, 2012 11:36:55 GMT -5 kellbell191 said:

Aug 13, 2012 11:33:31 GMT -5 LLL said:

I like the makeup too, except that lipstick. it's horrible

LOL which picture? I paid someone a boatload to do mine for the wedding one and still have that lipstick if you want to borrow it : )

ETA: I think I am just going to tell the hair lady to do whatever the F she wants. That's what they're paying her for, right?

not you, I meant the kelly clarkson pic I posted. It's simple enough that you can do it on your own, please if you show it at the makeup counter they can probably tell you how to replicate that look

[kellbell191]

Aug 13, 2012 11:41:37 GMT -5 LLL said:

Aug 13, 2012 11:36:55 GMT -5 kellbell191 said:

LOL which picture? I paid someone a boatload to do mine for the wedding one and still have that lipstick if you want to borrow it : )

ETA: I think I am just going to tell the hair lady to do whatever the F she wants. That's what they're paying her for, right?

not you, I meant the kelly clarkson pic I posted. It's simple enough that you can do it on your own, please if you show it at the makeup counter they can probably tell you how to replicate that look

I'm going to sephora this week. I have a million weddings to go to this fall so I figure I will get good use out of it. And yeah, that lipstick is not good.

Thanks again!

[kellbell191]

ALSO this is the wedding where we are having our hair done at 9 am for a 5 pm ceremony. good times!

[cleo29]

If I had my hair done that early for an evening wedding it would have to be strict up do for it to hold up, otherwise, my hair would look blah by 5. I think your friend is so overboard in her expectations of her bridal party.

I treated my friends to having their hair done, mainly because I can't do my own and thought it would be fun, but I didn't say how they had to have it styled.

[kellbell191]

Aug 13, 2012 12:52:38 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

If I had my hair done that early for an evening wedding it would have to be strict up do for it to hold up, otherwise, my hair would look blah by 5. I think your friend is so overboard in her expectations of her bridal party.

I treated my friends to having their hair done, mainly because I can't do my own and thought it would be fun, but I didn't say how they had to have it styled.

This is what I did. Everyone got their own stylist and could choose whatever they wanted.

She is sucking all of the fun out of this. I just hope everything meets her expectations and she becomes normal again once its over. Thank goodness it was only a year long engagement!

[cleo29]

Aug 13, 2012 12:54:09 GMT -5 kellbell191 said:

Aug 13, 2012 12:52:38 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

If I had my hair done that early for an evening wedding it would have to be strict up do for it to hold up, otherwise, my hair would look blah by 5. I think your friend is so overboard in her expectations of her bridal party.

I treated my friends to having their hair done, mainly because I can't do my own and thought it would be fun, but I didn't say how they had to have it styled.

This is what I did. Everyone got their own stylist and could choose whatever they wanted.

She is sucking all of the fun out of this. I just hope everything meets her expectations and she becomes normal again once its over. Thank goodness it was only a year long engagement!

I'm sure she will find something to be upset about, when she is that controlling over every detail, something is bound to upset her.

[Deleted]

I'd cut my hair. It is YOUR hair afterall.

[kellbell191]

Aug 13, 2012 12:56:14 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Aug 13, 2012 12:54:09 GMT -5 kellbell191 said:

This is what I did. Everyone got their own stylist and could choose whatever they wanted.

She is sucking all of the fun out of this. I just hope everything meets her expectations and she becomes normal again once its over. Thank goodness it was only a year long engagement!

I'm sure she will find something to be upset about, when she is that controlling over every detail, something is bound to upset her.

On the plus side, I am usually able to talk her down when she gets upset about wedding stuff.

Admission: b.c. she is so wedding obsessed I know her photos will be everywhere and I very much do not want to look like shit in them.

[kellbell191]

If I were getting it done at a time when it would stay I love this hair:



I'm thinking if I glue myself to the bride's side as emotional support I may get to go last with hair and doing my make up : ) They also have TWO HOURS blocked for bridal party photos pre ceremony. I hate having my picture taken. I will need a shit load of booze people.

[cleo29]

Might I suggest this?:
www.etsy.com/listing/89336174/flask-garter-with-flask-deep-red?ref=sr_gallery_5&ga_includes%5B%5D=tags&ga_search_query=garter+flask&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery

[kellbell191]

Aug 13, 2012 13:33:30 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Might I suggest this?:
www.etsy.com/listing/89336174/flask-garter-with-flask-deep-red?ref=sr_gallery_5&ga_includes%5B%5D=tags&ga_search_query=garter+flask&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery

LOL! Too bad I am broke from, you know,paying to be in the wedding in the first place : )

[cleo29]

Aug 13, 2012 13:53:30 GMT -5 kellbell191 said:

Aug 13, 2012 13:33:30 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Might I suggest this?:
www.etsy.com/listing/89336174/flask-garter-with-flask-deep-red?ref=sr_gallery_5&ga_includes%5B%5D=tags&ga_search_query=garter+flask&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery

LOL! Too bad I am broke from, you know,paying to be in the wedding in the first place : )

You should suggest to the bride that she buys them as her gift to her bridal party.