Post by VeryViolet on Apr 21, 2015 18:00:44 GMT -5
This is horrifying to me. As in just reading the story and thinking about sharing one hotel room with my ILs caused me to feel some anxiety. LOL
So no definitely wouldn't share a room. While I also wouldn't do what a pp mentioned and share a one bedroom with a LR that is not that weird. Tell your husband to stay with his parents and get your own room and starfish in the king bed. LOL
I would share a room with my IL's if there was a natural disaster and space was very limited or something. Or the zombie apocalypse, or an asteroid or something.
Post by sunnysally on Apr 21, 2015 18:06:15 GMT -5
I really don't understand why it is weird. I wouldn't want to share for an extended vacation because I like my space, but for a night or two it's no problem. Maybe it's regional? lol
I really don't understand why it is weird. I wouldn't want to share for an extended vacation because I like my space, but for a night or two it's no problem. Maybe it's regional? lol
By regional do you mean like...the region of the hotel room you are sharing with your ILs?
Post by themysteriouswife on Apr 21, 2015 18:16:38 GMT -5
Fuck no. And my answer has nothing to do with PJs or where to change. I need a mr Tal break and time to unwind. Doing so with my parents or ILS would be impossible
I would share a room with my IL's if there was a natural disaster and space was very limited or something. Or the zombie apocalypse, or an asteroid or something.
I would share a room* with my in-laws if we were visiting and a hurricane/tornado hit.
I'll just throw in that when my ILs paid for a family holiday, they paid for our separate room. When we checked in, we asked for the rooms to be as far apart as possible. That's how "no" my answer would be.
I would share a room with my IL's if there was a natural disaster and space was very limited or something. Or the zombie apocalypse, or an asteroid or something.
I would share a room* with my in-laws if we were visiting and a hurricane/tornado hit.
*room in this case being a storm shelter
I think I'd take my chance to face the tornado. Or zombies.
Post by themysteriouswife on Apr 21, 2015 18:22:15 GMT -5
The only thing I can think of is mommy daddy attachment issues if you find this okay. Maybe I'm projecting my feelings based on my SIL who has serious mommy issues.
No not in a million years. I wouldn't with my parents either and we are freakishly close with them. If I couldn't afford to go otherwise then I would not go.
No not in a million years. I wouldn't with my parents either and we are freakishly close with them. If I couldn't afford to go otherwise then I would not go.
Exactly! I'd rather not go at all than share a room with my ILs. I couldn't even imagine vacationing with them with separate rooms. NONE of that screams fun relaxing vacation.
Enh I would rather not, but I could if I got on well with them and I had to. IE if ILs or us were on a super tight budget (note: we are on a super tight budget and this has still never happened . Are there condo type places that may have two bedrooms and be a little cheaper than separate rooms?
Although DH and I were going to go somewhere with the kids and just my mom and she and he both thought we needed our own rooms. I thought since it was just her we would be fine sharing.
Oh and wouldn't under these circumstances though b/c I assume everyone is going to be getting wedding ready at the same time and there's just not enough room, facilities. Plus and also drunk hotel sex would be off the table and that would be a shame!