H just texted me and said next week his work would like him to change shifts from evenings to mornings. For a month. Our nanny would have to agree, she would have to work longer, and we would have to pay an extra $550 that month. Wtf H's work.
Yikes MrsAggie! Can you guys live on your income? I would highly encourage him to stick it out a little while if he can. Did he like his job before the change in hours? So many ((hugs))...hope you guys can come to an agreeable decision.
I've had an ongoing headache for days now and I'm sick of it! I want to go for a walk tonight but we'll see if this headache finally subsides. I'm also totally exhausted for some reason but I'm trying really hard to get more activity in!
Yikes MrsAggie! Can you guys live on your income? I would highly encourage him to stick it out a little while if he can. Did he like his job before the change in hours? So many ((hugs))...hope you guys can come to an agreeable decision.
We cannot live on my income alone. He makes like 30% more than me. We do have enough in savings to live off for a good while but I don't want to drain our savings. He hates his job, always has. I hate his job, always have. He needs to find another job and THEN put in notice.
I just can't with this right now. He has been saying forever that he would look for another job but he doesn't take it seriously. I told him to go to a local headhunter and he hasn't. He sucks at interviews because he's an introvert and doesn't like being "fake". He has a great relationship with employees once he starts work and gets to know everyone. I feel like everything is my responsibility and I refuse to take the initiative on this. I don't have it in me.
H is now considering putting in his notice without having another job lined up. I think I'm going to puke.
I'm so sorry. DH did this a few years ago, the day before I graduated and I didn't have a job yet. We lived off savings for 3 months. It was hard, so very hard. We made it through and you will too. Good luck to him!