I have to say that dh is

[joenali]

Not very good at care giving. We got in a huge fight at 3:45 am on Sunday about how he is so sick of doing things for me. I am much, much better now but still can't do everything on my own and I can't get easy, quick things done fast yet. He sighs and rolls his eyes and he does it in front of me. I told him I get it, it sucks for you and me, but if you are going to sigh and roll your eyes do it when I can't see or hear you. He also says I'm not thankful. I can't tell you how many times I have said thank you and I appreciate you, I would do the same for you.

Anyway, I'm glad to be at my mom's this week. She is so much more easy going!

Ankle injuries are the devil! lol!

[Deleted]

You poor thing! Glad your mom can help out

[ninjabridemom]

Ick, I'm sorry.

[wambam]

He's sick of taking care of you? I hope he breaks an ankle. Geezus.

[joenali]

Jun 15, 2015 9:15:04 GMT -5 wambam said:

He's sick of taking care of you? I hope he breaks an ankle. Geezus.

Right!!! Get over yourself buddy!

We did talk about it later and he apologized.

[aussiecrush]

Dude, this is the in sickness and in health part he signed up for. I hope you feel better soon, I can't imagine how frustrating this is for you.

[Deleted]

I suck at taking care of H. I am not a very good caregiver.


I think he would suck at taking care of me as well.



I feel you. But on the other hand, he needs to shut the hell up and not make you feel bad. That is just douchey.

[joenali]

Jun 15, 2015 9:22:17 GMT -5 jenny1980 said:

Wtf? Punch him for me!

I will,

[joenali]

Jun 15, 2015 9:22:42 GMT -5 @lazerus24 said:

I suck at taking care of H. I am not a very good caregiver.


I think he would suck at taking care of me as well.



I feel you. But on the other hand, he needs to shut the hell up and not make you feel bad. That is just douchey.

If he was hurt or sick id probably get annoyed too, but I would never show it.

[livinitup]

Nice going DH. Way to make your injury and recovery all about him.

[thinkofthesoldiers]

I don't know...you've been annoying on here. I'm guessing you aren't as easy going as you think you are about all of this.

[joenali]

Jun 15, 2015 9:28:54 GMT -5 thinkofthesoldiers said:

I don't know...you've been annoying on here. I'm guessing you aren't as easy going as you think you are about all of this.

Lol!

[joenali]

I don't know anyone, including myself who would be easy breezy all the time in this situation. So yeah I'm sure I've been annoying. Not gonna lie!

[mom2twoboys]

So sorry his is being a dick right now. Guys don't realize we would care for them in heartbeat and just complain when they aren't around. Glad he apologized and I hope your mom can take extra special care of you this week!

[mom2twoboys]

Jun 15, 2015 9:33:35 GMT -5 joenali said:

I don't know anyone, including myself who would be easy breezy all the time in this situation. So yeah I'm sure I've been annoying. Not gonna lie!

I have a very good friend that broke her ankle a couple months ago that required two surgeries. She said the hardest part was just lying there doing nothing. Anyone would get tired of that and be annoyed. It takes a while to heal, but you will be on the mend soon!  

[Mrs.Rad888]

Whack him in the crotch with one of your crutches, then make him get his own bag of peas.

[Bernadine]

I am a terrible care taker, but I never try to make h feel bad when he needs me to do things for him.

He hasn't had to be in the care taker role for me much, and I wonder how he'd be. Probably better than me, lol. He's much nicer than me.

[VeryViolet]

Jun 15, 2015 10:03:47 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

I am a terrible care taker, but I never try to make h feel bad when he needs me to do things for him.

He hasn't had to be in the care taker role for me much, and I wonder how he'd be. Probably better than me, lol. He's much nicer than me.

This is me and my DH so much. LOL 

I am sorry your husband was being a dick OP. I am glad he apologized and I hope he feels appropriately embarrassed. TBH though I would much rather have my mom than my husband if my ankle was broken.  

[Deleted]

That's realky shitty. I honestly don't think I could get over that for awhile. Yes being a caregiver sucks but it's not like you've been sick for years and this is a short term thing. I'm glad you have your mom to help you out though.

[CrazyLucky]

You guys have kids, or no? Because if you have them, he's not going to be real appreciated those first one or 21 years!
I hope it gets better for you soon. DH has been really good to me after surgery. I'm good to him after something major. But when he gets all man cold on me, my sympathy runs out quick.

[cleo29]

Ugh, that is pretty jerky. Even if it gets annoying, you don't show it to the person, you just bitch about them behind their back. Duh!

I do know from H, when you are a person used to working out/running/playing sports, and are sidelined, that person can be pretty cranky after a while, which I get.