Guys' Night Out

[ilikedonuts]

He has either softball or basketball usually one evening a week. I count that as a "night out"

[Deleted]

He goes out way more than me. Probably once a week or a few times a month. 

He also plays in adult rec leagues so at least once a week if you count those kinds of things.

[galaxy8227]

Every few months, I try to push for once a month since he needs to get out more but it's tough with his friends schedules (all have young kids)

[wanderlustmom]

We are at opposite ends of the spectrum here which of course fits his introvert nature and my extrovert nature. I go out at least once a week and he goes out without me maybe once a year? I also take a few girls trips a year. He does no guys trips. We do couples date nights but those don't count nor does taking our kids places alone for father/son father/daughter time.
He does work out all the time but it's not social for him so I can't count that. And our kids are older too, eight and ten. He is just really content without it or so he says...

[irishbride2]

Its hard to say what counts. A HUGE part of H's job is networking. So he has a lot of nights out that are job related (like taking a few people to a MLB game, for example) that are also somewhat a night out with the guys. Its really gray.

If you count all of those, its easily once a week. If you don't, I would say once a month only because he has so many other evening things.

[redwino]

Something that is pure social and not a work obligation rarely happens. He prefers to sit playing videogames at home to any social activity.

[SallySparrow]

A couple times a year he will do a weekend camping/boating/whatever trip. And poker nights every six months or so.

So...more often than I go out. lol.

[mcfelix]

So rarely. I go out much more than he does. I would absolutely be fine with him having guys nights out on a regular basis but he's not interested. I, on the other hand, cherish my ladies brunches and, less frequently, dinners.

[meltoine]

When he goes on trip for work they all go out at night. His only friends are from work, so that's most of his guy nights. Very occasionally there's a local event that someone puts together. It probably evens out to once/month.

[browneyedgirl9]

Almost never. I wish he did! Lol

[cece]

He definitely goes out more than me. I should go out more.

[AlpineSlide]

Almost never. Maybe once or twice a year.

[cjeanette]

Used to be once a week but now its more like one every other month short of football season

[jorja]

It's really hard for us, because he works normal week day hours, and I work Friday and Saturday nights. I get one weekend off a month, but we usually have something planned.

He does occasionally go get a beer after work with buddies, does that count?

[mlt]

MH goes out every two weeks or so. Sometimes more often if one of his teams are in the playoffs.

[MadamePresident]

My husband will do "guys nights in" where he will play video games online with his friends. He has a lot of friends that live a couple hours away.